Married women texting other men.

[EDISKRAD EHT]

I was talking with a co-worker and he mentioned that his wife has 4-5 guy friends that she texts or talks to on BBM on a regular basis. That shocked me a little bit as IMO that's not acceptable. 1 or maybe 2 life long guy friends would be fine, but 5-6 guys? Some are even the significant other of her girlfriend's.

Maybe I need a lesson in trust, but I think she's definitely up to good and think the guy should start paying attention.

Edit: To add some facts to the post for Mike. Lol

-If it matters (which I think it does) the guys wife is ridiculously hot.
-None of the guys are guys she was friends with before they were married over 10 years ago.
-She's a stay at home mom and has never had a job in her life.




How would you guys react, or feel about that if you were married?

[GOT BOOST]

I was talking with a co-worker and he mentioned that his wife has 4-5 guy friends that she texts or talks to on BBM on a regular basis. That shocked me a little bit as IMO that's not acceptable. 1 or maybe 2 life long guy friends would be fine, but 5-6 guys? Some are even the significant other of her girlfriend's.

Maybe I need a lesson in trust, but I think she's definitely up to good and thinh the guy should start paying attention.



How would you guys react, or feel about that if you were married?

Who cares…..

If anyone has an issue with this they have trust issues.

What is not to say these 4-5 guy friends act as great resources for information, entertainment, etc. IMO life is too short to worry about this stuff. If the guy has an issue he can always ask her. How she responds with her body language, tone of voice, and actions will tell it right there.

If it was worst case scenario he could always find and bang a better girl.

[Realistic]

I don't think it would be too big of an issue if they're life long friends.. Some girls prefer to have male friends because there is less BS to put up with.

If you two goto the bar and she gets a phone number and starts conversations...then I would be concerned. Lol.

[raxe]

I have married female friends that I text and hang out with, no big deal really. We're just that: friends.

[mcmanus7]

There's 5-6 women that I keep in contact with via SMS and my Wife has no issues with that.

It really comes down to trust. If you cannot trust your partner with something like this then it's probably best to end your relationship now...

[EDISKRAD EHT]

Who cares…..

If anyone has an issue with this they have trust issues.

What is not to say these 4-5 guy friends act as great resources for information, entertainment, etc. IMO life is too short to worry about this stuff. If the guy has an issue he can always ask her. How she responds with her body language, tone of voice, and actions will tell it right there.

If it was worst case scenario he could always find and bang a better girl.

So you're saying it would be ok for your wife to meet new guys and start chatting with them over text messaging?

I have married female friends that I text and hang out with, no big deal really. We're just that: friends.

How long have you known them for? I think that is a huge factor IMO.

[Fish_e_o]

men and women = not friends

or i have trust issues... who cares, that's how i roll

[EDISKRAD EHT]

There's 5-6 women that I keep in contact with via SMS and my Wife has no issues with that.

It really comes down to trust. If you cannot trust your partner with something like this then it's probably best to end your relationship now...

Of those 5-6 women are some of them your wife's girlfriends that you met through your wife?

[GOT BOOST]

So you're saying it would be ok for your wife to meet new guys and start chatting with them over text messaging?



How long have you known them for? I think that is a huge factor IMO.

You mentioned nothing about her just meeting these guys and started texting them. Time to get your facts lined up.