| s2oooR |
| Lets say your seeing someone....do u go out with someone else of the opposite sex, even if u think of them as just a friend? OR, do u NOT go out with them because u wanna respect your gf/bf? |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| If they are a friend, why sit at home, and wait for your bf's call? I have done that waaaaay to many times, and he went out without caring about my feelings, so now I know better than dropping my friends for a guy. I did it before, and it is hard to get them back after you ditched them, which is why I am thankful for the ones that understood, and I now talk to again. <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
Wow, I cant believe u did that for that guy. _I know when I've done it with my friends, I make sure to make some time later on during the week, for them. _Plus, I think we're pretty cool abuot that kinda stuff so its no biggie...
Thing is, my gf gets SUPER jealous when it comes to me and other girls....she wont admit it but u saw her reaction in my "huge fight with gf!" thread.
So now, I just try not to tell her about it or I say we met up with a few friends there, etc etc.....cuz nothing really happens....she worries about nothing....so in this case...why make her worry at all by telling her, u know? _I know not to cheat....etc etc....
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I tried being honest about things like that... I never cheated on my ex, and I never would have, but he thought I was anyways... so whatever, it hurt me a lot, but nothing I can do, right? |
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| s2oooR |
| You know, some guys are like that? I think its good to an extent but once u over do it....I think its just too much for the girl or guy...u know what i mean? Like i mean,,,when my gf gets jealous...I think its really cute and it makes u feel whatever....wanted, loved,,,,etc etc....im gettin corny here..LOL...but u know what i mean..... <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| REFLUX |
i wouldn't really call it a date
i would still go out w/ a friend (1 on 1) but it's 100% ONLY FRIENDS kind of sh*t |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Yeah, if you're hanging out and stuff, it's cool.
Strictly plutonic. |
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| Genki |
| agree'd! if you're just friends why does it matter if its fromt eh opposite sex?! |
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| s2oooR |
it matters if your gf gets jealous and doesnt want u to!! Well, she probably wont come outright and say it...but know what I mean...
I think its for some girls, not all girls.....like for example....you consider this one girl a friend but she wants to be MORE than friends?....Thats what I meant by this poll....sorry guys!.....so NOW do u go out with her or dont u? |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I was thinking if it was strictly friends... like my best friend is a guy, and I really don't want anyone I date to get jealous (he is in Van though) over our friendship... but since you mentioned that if the guys likes you more than a friend.. I would let my bf know, and see if I am able. |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
you consider this one girl a friend but she wants to be MORE than friends?
no, i would stay away from this girl
i wouldn't want to give her the wrong impression & "lead her on" or some sh*t like that |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Terryshroom:
As long as you are upfront and honest with your friend, then it should not make you feel like you are leading her on.... Also, ask your signifigant other if they would mind you going out with that person. It is only respect. |
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| s2oooR |
Reflux: So your willing to lose a friend just cuz she likes you a bit more than u do?
GR:You know what my gf would say about that or MOST girls, rather....they'd probably NOT wanna look jealous so they'd probably give u the old...."yeah go ahead, I trust u..."....or "sure, I dont mine....do what u want.."....am i right? I think SOME girls woudl do that at least.... |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
True, guys do that too, but then the girl gets in trouble anyways... it is a no win situation.
If my guy asked my permission, and I trusted him, I'd let him go, without question. It all comes down to trust. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Yo, if a girl is making moves on you and you're curently in a relationship, you've got to make it CLEAR, and I mean disenfected clean and clear, that you have no intentions of getting with her.
If she cannot respect that, she's no friend.
If she get's upset, she's no friend
If she threatens never to talk to you again...
Broom her fast. |
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| s2oooR |
| I guess u have to tell her that "im sorry, so and so, but you'll have to get in line to date me......your number 999.....please take a seat?" lololol |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Well, it you want results, you can't kid about it.
She'll see it as flirting... and it'll only encourage her.
Be firm and unyeilding, and most of all be clear. |
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| s2oooR |
| So I guess you put down "flirting" as drawing the line for whatever it was we were talking about in that other thread? lol |
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| REFLUX |
s2000r: no i wouldn't "lose a friend", i jus wouldn't go & have 1 on 1 dates w/ her
or i'd tell her, make it clear (wat Andy said)
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| BlueTurboEGG |
| Well, aside from taking out one of those 2 ton mallets, yeah, tell her NO!... |
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