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s2oooR

Gosh, what does THAT mean? I'll fill u guys in with details if anyone is interested...lol.

I think im basically have the same problem as Scint. right now <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> ....if not the same....pretty similar?

Scint, we gotta talk cuz I need to know what you decided...lol....and why u came to that conclusion?

talk to u guys tommorow!....Its 3am ...too late to talk about it....

GirlRacer P1

R: What happened??? details!! Did Maria decide this, or you? Anything I can do to help?

s2oooR

Its basically this.....we were just talking...and of course im my usual self talking all happy....u know, cuz i was happy to talk to her??? Anyways, she doesnt seem as excited as I am to be talking to each other? Do u know what im saying? ...Like i mean, I think I even told her that....I said, "Maria, im soooooooooo happy I got a chance to talk to u todayyyyy! I was so excited!"...and then just joking around, I said, "...I bet you were even MORE excited to talk to me, huh?!"...lololol.....(ok, some of u woudlnt think thats too funny but its pretty flirty, dont u think?)...Anyways....I coudlnt tell if she was joking or not but she goes, "mmmmmm...."....I think she laughed afterwards but, still.....why would you say that and she could SEE i was happy to see her! She WAS taking care of a sunburn cuz she was complaining about it lots....maybe that could've been it?....but thats not THAT big of an excuse, in my opinion. Anyways, its just stuff like that....

..and then on the phone she'd be like....u never talk alot when we talk on the phone. And we talk for like a good hour and a half!....AND THENNNN....afterwards, our last fight came up and I happend to mention that we were fighting cuz IIIII didnt sound like I was excited to talk to her after so long.....u guys remember that?....anyways, I mentioned that and she goes off saying how I always try to make her out to be the bad guy?.....well I have my opinion and she has hers and of coruse I beleive im right and she's wrong......but I let it go....i chose the higher road and said, " yes Maria, your right....Im sorry, my mistake...."....just to save myself from another argument. Actually, u know what she said about that? She turned it around on me and said, "THATS not why we were fighting, it was because YOU thought I wasnt interested in your trip to Maui because I wasnt asking u any questions about it!".....yes, I was upset about that....as im sure some of you on this board, would be, if you went away for 2 weeks to maui, and your gf barely asks you about it?....anyways, I dont believe thats how that fight got started.....On the phone she was super quiet after SHE thought I didnt sound excited to see talk to her. Remember I was sick? sore throat and sh*t?.....and I WASSS asking her about her trip, unlike SHE was! (She went to Montreal while I was gone).

....and since im ranting about her already,,,,why dont i mention some of the smaller things that she doesnt like about what I do.

1) I say sorry too much? I saw sorry cuz thats how I apologize (btw, she doesnt like me using apologize or any apologetic words because she says it doesnt mean anything to me cuz I end up doing the same thing over and over again)...lol...what fricken joke! (as an aside, but still related to this....yesterday she I told her told her that she should have put sunblock so she woudlnt have gotten burnt...and then I mentioned it a second time during the hour/hour and a half we talked....and she told me that I've been harping about it all night long???...u tell me how that worksssss???...sheesh...I even mentioned it as a little poking joke both times&#33<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'>

2) She doesnt like it when I flirt and make some sexual comment. Im a fricken GUY....omg....most guys do this at some point or another....I have basically stopped since she got mad at me for that. I occasionally mention something she doesnt like and then all of a sudden its like, "omg, not this againnnnnnn...your starting with that again?! your always saying stuff like that!"....Personally, I think its funny and it lightens up the moment <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> Plus, what girl DOESNT like getting flirted with by their bfs?

3)She says I talk about the same things all the time....i.e hows your day? did u go shopping?!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>)))))....do anything exciting today?....Hows school?...Whats up for the weekend??.....When are u gonna come over and kiss me all over?...LOL (thats an example of one of the things I say from my example above).....anyways, she doesnt offer much to talk about so I basically have to ask her everything....btw, she doesnt ask me much of anything so if i wanna talk about my day or whatever, i basically have to tell her myself.

4) there's more but I gotta go!...LOL.....I havnt even GOTTEN to the part about just going out with other girl friends.....u know FRIENDS!.....i have to admit she isnt jealous of EVERY girl....but i'd say she's worried about alot of them. Like imean...she says shes not jealous.....but the way she acts, it sure looks like it!

GirlRacer P1

R: All I can say is....... you poor thing. I mean, I do the same things with my bf, but he did not like it either... Anyways... you gotta decide if it is worth it to you. I know you love her a lot, but you might want to think if she is worth the frustration (for lack of a better word). Take some time to think it over, have a chat with Maria, and hope for the best. I'll cross my fingers for you!

Scintillater

wow. so much talking. anyhow...i decided that it was just a new experience, and i told my bf about it sorta, and he decided that perhaps he wasn't fulfilling my need enough in a certain area of my life, and now he's trying to change that. that's totally cool i think, and we've worked things out and that head turner is just a normal friend now <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

s2oooR

Thats good scint. ......now if i could just work MY problems out!...LOL.

Girls look at things so much more different than guys do.....I'll just bear with it, I guess? lol

Im sure whatever happens will happen for a reason.

We basically worked things out but she's still thinking about what I said to her a couple nights ago.....

we'll see what happens!

GirlRacer P1

Are you cheating on me now?? huh??? hahaha
All you can do now is sww what happens. If it works, then great, if not, then it was not meant to be.

s2oooR

Cheating on u now??? ....but I thought we had an agreement?...LOL

GirlRacer P1

oh yea... I forgot. haha

REFLUX

Rommel: you are the best judge of whether or not you should break up with your gf

but whatever your decision may be.....choose wisely, cuz it wont b a decision that you can go back on

s2oooR

We decided....or I, ....decided that we're gonna work things out and things are going quite well now, actually <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

REFLUX

glad to hear it man!!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

GirlRacer P1

I am very happy for you Rommel!!!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> Rommel and Maria, sitting in a tree...... hehehee

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -GirlRacer P1
Rommel and Maria, sitting in a tree...... hehehee

F-U-C-K-I-N-G

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

Genki

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
quote:
Originally posted by -GirlRacer P1
Rommel and Maria, sitting in a tree...... hehehee

F-U-C-K-I-N-G

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

HAHAAH in a tree tho!? maybe tree house <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

s2oooR

dont give me ideas! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'>

...actually, that wuodlnt even work.....Maria doesnt watch her figure as much as she used to <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>

Any ideas how to get her to go to the gym? LOL.

BlueTurboEGG

Hey, I heard sex is a great way to burn calories...

Seriously, it's good to hear you two are trying to work it out.

Relationships are a mixed bag, but if the good times make you forget about the bad times, you know you've got something good <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

ps. don't forget to warm up before your activities...

s2oooR

Yup, i heard sex is a good calorie burner....for the GUY maybe....I think the girl can get lazy and just lie there <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> Unless any of u girls in here wanna prove me wronggggg???...LOL.

Thanks man, I appreciate all the help you and everyone's given me!....im new to this long term relationship thing <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'>

Really? if the good times make u forget that bad, u know its something good? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> I guess your right about that! Never thought of it that way before. I'll keep that in mind next time we start arguing <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

What do u mean, warm up before my activities? lol <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/withstupid.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':withstupid:'>

REFLUX

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Originally posted by -s2oooR
Maria doesnt watch her figure as much as she used to <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> _

Any ideas how to get her to go to the gym? LOL.

i read somewhere that if one person in a relationship starts to work out, the other will see that their partner is gettin into shape...self-reflect & naturally go to the gym as well

whether that works or not....i'm not so sure, but maybe give it a try?

but watever u do....u CANNOT make an effort to tell her to go work out

she has to figure it out & want to do it herself (not true with all women, but Maria seems like the type to get upset over the "am i fat" thing)

BlueTurboEGG

Ah, the old, lead by example bit. Perhaps one of the best ways to passively convince someone.

Or you could just get her go on top <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

s2oooR

Reflux, Yeah...that sounds like a good idea....I mentioned that I was starting to work out a bit again. Im naturally active already cuz thats what I do for a living...lol....but maybe telling her that Im working out more often, will help? I noticed that when I mentioned to her that I was, she was like, "really? I didnt know that?...how come u never told me?...How much did u bulk up?"...lol...so maybe its getting in her head, who knows? And, Just yesterday, she said, "do u think I'll look better if I tan a bit?".....so obviously she's looking at the way she looks a bit more, hey? good stuff!

Turbo, Ohhhhhhhh yeahhhhhhhhhh.....I like that idea too but ummmm....she's gotta work out a bit more cuz ummmm...I might get killed?...LOL Lack of air? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
And, Just yesterday, she said, "do u think I'll look better if I tan a bit?".....so obviously she's looking at the way she looks a bit more, hey? _good stuff!

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

even tho i'm 100% against fake & bake, at least she's lookin more into her self-image (of course, if she's sun-tanning.....dat's coo with me hehe)

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
but ummmm....she's gotta work out a bit more cuz ummmm...I might get killed?...LOL _Lack of air?

she can't be THAT out of shape!!

i sense some "exaggeration" <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'>

s2oooR

nope,,,,,you wouldnt believe the before I was going out with her and the AFTER I was going out with her pictures...lol. You'd guess it was a different girl! Dont u hate it when girls just let go? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> Before I met her, she was working out EVERYDAY for like 2 hrs a day! She looked amazing, to say the least! Why she hooked up with me, I dont know?..LOL...I must be doign SOMETHING right!

Anyways, its not like im gonna dump her just cuz body doesnt look as good as it did before. <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> I know some ppl that might do that though <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'>

Bimmer

You know if you do break up with your GF, I guarantee she'll get back into great shape just so you regret it <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> Well, also so that other guys will check her out <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

On a side note, sorry i didn't recognize you at the show Rommel... If you had told me you were s2000r I would have known right away, but for some reason "Rommel" just didn't click in my head.. haha..

masterv

S2KR was at the show?
how did i miss that dood?
haha
i only saw one s2k at the show...and it ain't urs <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'>

REFLUX

he prbly parked elsewhere

next V8Less meet (drags?) we should get the AN regulars to meet up

s2oooR

Tin: You think it'd work if I break up with her and then get back together with her once she's back to wehre she was? LOL...that'd be pretty sweet if i could do that though.....she would look SO good if she got back into shape!.....just cuz her boobs got even bigger now that she kinda let go ...lol

Vince: what the hell? How COULD u miss me at the show? I had yellow hawaiian shorts on and a red top on! And it wasnt obvious when Markis shouted out my screen name in front of everybody?...LOL.

You know, I almost DIDNT bring my s2k there? Its the first time i parked my car for longer than 10min. Otherwise I usually take my other car, which isnt half bad either. anyways, I parked at oliver square with a couple of friends surrounding my car...LOL....just so i dont get any door dings <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'>

Reflux: I dont drag my car just cuz its not a drag car? lol....so i doubt I'll show up there but just to meet up to grab someting to eat? sure!

masterv

s2k>>ohhhh that was u crouching by the door? hahah i thot u were in trouble with that cop lol.... <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

s2oooR

me get in trouble from the cops?! Yeahhhhh, only for speedinggggg! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> Although they must hate me for being able to get out of most of my tickets <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'>

But yeah...that was me <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> I was just talking to James about my car. He still wants to compare his to mine...I told him mine was bigger so why even bother *wink wink*..LOL. Just kidding. I wanted to know if that Spoon Cold Air Duct was now available and no longer back ordered <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> Its been back ordered for almost a year now!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':angry:'>

Anyways back on topic. I got into another little argument with my gf yesterday night. She told me I dont listen because apparently I forgot she had mono?...LOL. Well, it WAS over a month ago and she doesnt really complain or talk about it so I sorta forgot! Anyways, she is now convinced that I NEVER EVER listen to her or at the very least never remember the important stuff. You know, she might have a point that I forget stuff, but its not like i forget on PURPOSEEEE! Anyways, what can i do besides "no, i wont do it again?"..lol ....I still dont think I deserve the treatment im getting for accidentally forgetting....any comments?

REFLUX

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Originally posted by -s2oooR
You know, she might have a point that I forget stuff, but its not like i forget on PURPOSEEEE! _Anyways, what can i do besides "no, i wont do it again?"..lol _....I still dont think I deserve the treatment im getting for accidentally forgetting

same here man

i'll say something to jus make a point (example: "I would never make you mad." but everyone knows that's impossible...it's jus the point i wanted to make)

she'll take it to heart and the next time we have a "misunderstanding" she'll bring it up:
"I thought u said u would never make me upset?"

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>

jus like u Rommel...im havin my fair share of women problems as well.........*sigh**sniffle*

Genki

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
jus like u Rommel...im havin my fair share of women problems as well.........*sigh**sniffle*

im sure everyone has some problems.. hehe nothing is perfect <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>. Just gotta find one who understands you the best <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

Wait.. I know your prob Reflux.. you said u ahve women trouble! just stick to one man!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

s2oooR

Well that just pisses me off then! Its not like she's forgotten stuff when I told her some things!...and do u see ME getting upset over that??...nooooooo....YET, when I forget something...its "ohhhh, but u always do that, u always say that, u never listen, blah blah blah"....and like i mean, why dont they understand that Im not making you mad on PURPOSE?! Do they think that OMG, he's so hurtful...he's doing this to me on purpose...he only hears whats he wants to hear..etc etc....Like im not saying she doesnt have a right to be mad or upset...im saying is it neccessary for you to give me the cold shoulder?

Listen to this, im trying to apologize and she's telling me this, "You never listen, u always say yoru sorry but you always do it over again"....and I say to her, "well do you have to say that?...im already apologizing and saying sorry for forgetting ...im trying to make this better but when u say stuff like that, it almost seems like u WANT to argue".....and then SHE goes, "What? im not arguing, im just stating the obvious".....

...lololol....now tell me anyone in their right mind would not call that talking amicably...LOL....to me, that sounds like she's wanting to argue or at the very least, a bad case of pms...LOL....becuase the time we talked before that....we were fine....joking around and everything!

Oh yeah...she also mentioned "Yeahh okkk Rommel....why dont u go talk to your friends so they can tell you your a nice guy and your right blah blah blah...." Well u know what?...I AMMM right....just cuz i forgot something, your gonna go treating me the way your treating me?....thats kinda extreme, if u ask me! ...specially just for forgetting.

GirlRacer P1

Terryshroom has girl issues?? _<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> You gonna be okay???

R: it has been a while since I put in my two cents...
I know EXACTLY what you are going through... I went through it with my ex bf... he was always telling me things like that. It basically comes down to you have to mind what you say or do with her (don't tell her about this weekend) and even though you try not to upset her, you always seem to. I think it is time to revaluate this relationship with her, and figure out if it is right for you to be in.... You do not sound as happy as you were when you first came on the boards, or even when I first got to meet and started talking to you.
Think things over, and see if this relationship is really the one you want to be in....

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -GirlRacer P1
Terryshroom has girl issues?? _<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> You gonna be okay???

i've done all i can
i've tried talkin to her, gettin her to talk, being there to listen (but she doesn't want to talk), apologizing.....i cant think of anything else....input anyone?

but yeah...i've done all i can...only thing left is to give her time & space & let her come to me wen she's ready

......i guess i'll be ok, it still hurts tho

but thankyou for asking, almost forgot how nice it is to smile <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

*hugs Crystal*

s2oooR

Yeah GR, But I already re-evaluated our relationship with her not too long ago! I cant possibly do that again, can I?..LOL. She got upset that I was thinking of breaking up with her!..LOL...or that I didnt let her know earlier? Anyways we worked things out and everything was good until I forgot she got sick (mono), about a month ago or more?...see how rediculous that sounds?...LOL Im still laughing over what she is upset about. I hope she never finds out about this board...LOLOLOL.

Really? I dont sound as happy as when I first came on the boards? lack of action, maybe? Im not getting enough action...LOL...jkkkk! ....I was sick when I first got on the boards. Thats why I had over 20 posts per day average!.:p Well im sure if I find a girl that makes me just as happy as she does and has a great personality etc etc.....u know Id have to give her a chance...but how often is that type of girl gonna come around? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>

Reflux: Dude?! hows that possible?! Your the man when it comes to handling girls feelings and understanding them! Who knows....its probably something wrong with the girl <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> lol

Just look at it this way....if she is too stupid to know how great you treat her...then maybe its for the best that she's being so distant.

s2oooR

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
almost forgot how nice it is to smile <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

You need to get yourself an S2000! All I gotta do to smile is walk into the garage! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

Just kidding <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> Whats the saying again? "Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile." <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

GirlRacer P1

Terryshroom: I hope everything goes well for you... you are too sweet to let something like that make you sad.
R: You can always evaluate.... why did she get mad about that?? I forget things all the time! I am just looking for the guy who does not mind about my lack of memory.......
One day I may find him.... or just screw it all and get a Subie.

s2oooR

Yeah GR, I didnt see the big deal when I forgot, either! I forget things all the time! Its amazing how I even graduated from University...LOL <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

I have no clue why she got mad about that.....she keeps on saying I always forget about the important stuff? I guess that was important to her?....

Whats a subie got to do with a bf? a bf is free and a subie is what? about $40K?...LOL. (WRX)

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
....if she is too stupid to know how great you treat her...then maybe its for the best that she's being so distant.

*sigh*

to ME & many other ppl who know MY side of the story....it sure seems like i'm treatin her great
but maybe i'm jus not seeing/meeting some of HER needs

she doesn't talk to other ppl about her personal stuff/issues, so i cant get it from anyone besides herself

*sigh**sigh**sigh*

she means so much to me.....it hurts me to know that she's havin troubles with us

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <---- (i literally look like this rite now)

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -GirlRacer P1
Terryshroom: I hope everything goes well for you... you are too sweet to let something like that make you sad.

thanks Crystal

it was nice seein u again today <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

im not so sure about Diane tho....haha j/k

GirlRacer P1

R: I want an RS... not WRX..... and Subie is better... no complaining, no talking back, does not get mad if I drive another car, likes it when I spoil it, always gives me a ride... I can go on and on.....
Cars are better than relationships.
Terryshroom: I really hope you and your gf can work it out... you need to <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> more.... no more <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> !!

GirlRacer P1

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
thanks Crystal

it was nice seein u again today <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

It is always nice seeing you..... not so sure about Vince though.... j/k Thanks for the bb tea guys!

s2oooR

Reflux: Not taking care of HER needs? Are u having problems 'getting it up?'...lol....Get some Viagra and give what the poor girl wants! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'>

You know, my gf doesnt talk to anyone about HER personal stuff/issues either....sucks, dude..

Ok, so who's Diane and why havnt I met her yet? LOL....is she cute? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

GR: I forgot about the RS <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> ....u make good pts! I guess with a car u can become a born again virgin, hey? LOL Oh, what am i talking about....Crystal's little miss innocent <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> she's SO good guys.....hands off my girl! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'>

GirlRacer P1

hahahaha, I am already a born again virgin..... I don't need a RS for that... but one will definatly help. Dianne is too young for you guys!!!! Hands off!

masterv

s2k>>haha u horny bastard..she'll leave cigarrette burns on ur hood lol

s2oooR

Crystal, u smoke? ....Ok, total turn off......the deal's off babes! ...its too bad...born again virgin, huh?

Why, how old is Dianne?....i didnt ask how old she was, i just asked if she was cute!...LOLOL.....if she's cute, tell her to call me when she turns 18 ...lololol <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
You know, my gf doesnt talk to anyone about HER personal stuff/issues either....sucks, dude..

yeah it does suck.....

1) we can't find out from other ppl
2) they dont have any way to vent
3) their own ideas dwell in their own minds & they dont get diff perspectives (i.e. maybe what they're thinkin is a little WHACK???)

& Crystal...yeah i'll try to <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> more often than <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>
but it's hard.......

GirlRacer P1

R: Nope, I do not smoke, he was talking about Dianne....
Smoking is yucky. <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/crazy.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':crazy:'>
Dianne is only 16 guys!!! Back off!

Terryshroom: That is usually what happens when people do not talk about things, it builds up and then out of nowhere you are getting attacked (not physically, but mentally) and you break up.... That is why communication is so important.
I do not like being with someone I do not feel comfortable talking with.

Genki

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
You know, my gf doesnt talk to anyone about HER personal stuff/issues either....sucks, dude..

yeah it does suck.....

1) we can't find out from other ppl
2) they dont have any way to vent
3) their own ideas dwell in their own minds & they dont get diff perspectives (i.e. maybe what they're thinkin is a little WHACK???)

& Crystal...yeah i'll try to <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> more often than <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('>
but it's hard.......

talk to other ppl abt probs?? _man.. my X said cuz i did that I was cheating on her! damn forgot what she called it... I think she said i was emotionally cheating on her... cuz i was confiding and seeking advice from friends at times.

i never felt comfortable tlaking to my X abt serious stuff.. mainly cuz usually somehow it seemed like it was my fault?

Crystal is right, communication on all levels is needed. _It sucks to have to watch what u gotta say..

REFLUX

Genki: Emotional Infidelity???

but yeah....my gf & i talked last nite...things are fine now
back to normal!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <---- just for Crystal <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'>

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

GirlRacer P1

TerryShroom: YAY!!!!!!!!!!! you back in <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> ?? hehe
I am very happy for you!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

s2oooR

YAY for the both of us! Im back in too!!!!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'>

REFLUX

hahaha thanks Crystal!!!
& good stuff Rommel!!!

it looks like all THREE of us got some lovin in our lives hey?<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/confused.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt='???'>

*winks @ Crystal*

EZ & Matrix sittin in a tree........

s2oooR

K-I-S-S-I-N-G

masterv

bumpity bump bump hahaha

s2oooR

...on the first date??? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/withstupid.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':withstupid:'>

REFLUX

u never know!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

s2oooR

oooooooooo......kinkyyyyyy.....I had no ideaaaaaaaa <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/withstupid.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':withstupid:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'> ...can i get one of those? <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/withstupid.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':withstupid:'>

GirlRacer P1

No kissing on the first date....... but I kinda do miss him..... <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'>
Oh well, I hope he is still there when I get back from Van. If he is, I will be soooo happy!!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

REFLUX

where else would he go?

s2oooR

To his MAMA! ...and <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'> that crystal is goneeee.....no action for Action Jackson <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> ....if ya knwo what i meannnn! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'>

REFLUX

mmmmmm...not really Rommel

have u been havin fone sex with Maria again???

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

s2oooR

quote:
Originally posted by -REFLUX
have u been havin fone sex with Maria again???

<img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

Noooooo <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'>

....she left today for europe for one month and 2 days <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> She'll be back on the 14th <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> We talked so much these past couple of days before she left <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> Im gonna miss her lots <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('> She IS comming over for this august though....so that should cheer me up a bit <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
She IS comming over for this august though....so that should cheer me up a bit <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'>

bring her out 2 a meet, i'm sure i'm not the only person who wants to meet her (*ahem* Crystal) <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'>

masterv

Crys>>gurl why'd u hook up only to leave town so fast? geez...u don't ditch a guy just like that..that's our job to do to women! j/k <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

GirlRacer P1

I don't even know if it is a hook up guys... I mean I really like him, we have gone out a few tijmes, and I am pretty darn sure he likes me... but there is nothing official yet.
I just hope he is still around when I come home... I miss him.

R: Yea, I wanna meet thw woman that stole your heart. <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/inlove.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':inlove:'>

s2oooR

Ummmm, why would you want to meet her? lol.....You have to just make sure you dont say anything....just kinda like we just met type of thing? u know?.....She wont like it too much if she finds out we've been talking and stuff ....I woudnt want you to get hurt...plus, I dont wanna get hurt either! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'> lol

s2oooR

.....rememmber what I told you guys? She's VERY protective over me!....lol. LIke i mean, she'll seem like she isnt but she is.....big time! I love it!!!! <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'> <img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'>

REFLUX

oh dont worry Rommel....i'm sure she wont mind sharing you with me

;) ;)

s2oooR

....can u invite vince too? I dont want him feeling left out, u know? :lol: :lol: <_<

s2oooR

:thumbs-up:

s2oooR

:thumbs-up:

damnnn, it doesnt work!

REFLUX

quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 2 2002, 09:30 AM
:thumbs-up:

damnnn, it doesnt work!

HAHAHAHAAHAH

LOOOOOOOSER!!!!

ahhahahha j/k j/k :D

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