| Magnum |
So I'm now officially a single guy... YAY!!!.... joking..
I just broke up with my g/f after 6 and a half years. I really never thought It would feel this shitty.. But yeah as most of you know I'm an asshole, so i had it coming... Feels like a wasted 6yrs of my life... I know none of you really give a shit.. but I had to say something..:( |
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| SHIFT_AT_9000_RPMS |
Damn bro, I thought it was just alittle lovers quarrel. Didn't know it was this bad. Maybe you both just need alittle time to cool your heals.
6 years is a long time. You guys should really try to make ammends.
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.
If you need someone to babysit the RSX while you work things out, lemme know. ;) |
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| Magnum |
| hehe.. thanks dude.. about the break thing though, we decided that would make things worse, cause we've tried that a few times before... |
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| djshortys |
grrrr., best of luck to ya dood!
andy! |
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| Loose |
| sounds like you need a rebound:bthumbup: |
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| midnite |
just take it easy, if it's for good and there is nothing you can do about it, then don't stress yourself.
accept and enjoy the future the best you can! everything changes, you won't be down forever.
now lets all chip in a few bucks and buy Aaron a rebound night. :D |
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| Honda_Honey |
I think you need to spend sometime with your car. It makes me feel better when i'm with my car haha hell I spend more time with it then I do with guys.
:) |
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| Spike7ss |
women are evil, so is honda,
cant live with them but you sure can drink with out them :beer:
Take some time to do what you want to do.
Live and let learn
thats all i got for now ;) |
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| REFLUX |
Sorry to hear about it Magnum :(
Life goes on and so will you :) :) |
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| djshortys |
life goes on?
not unless your dead..
andy! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I'd comment on here Aaron, but we already talked about it. :) You'll find someone that treats you well. :) |
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| GTS Jeff |
| fortunately for u, theres a lot more to life than having a girlfriend. |
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| TheNeonEdge |
I dont knwo the situation here but 6.5 years is a really long tiem. You guys are probably jsut so used to eachother that ure sick of it. I say you should try to make things work, perhaps let her know exactly why u are mad and expect the same from her......Unless she cheated or something then I would say We all need to take him out and get this man drunk and forget about her.
Sorry to hear though. After that long It can take a while to get over someone.
--ThE EdGe |
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| Magnum |
well thanks for the advice guys... I wont be trying to work things out cause we have been not getting along for about 3-4months...
its depressing, and its a hell of a way to start the new year.. but hey.. you live you learn i guess.. |
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| HKSpowers |
You know what i've been through and what i'm going through now.
This saying is the only way of justifying 6 years.
"Its better to of loved and losted, than to of never loved at all." |
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| Magnum |
| damn dawg! thats deep:bthumbup: |
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| IDiOM |
quote:
Originally posted by GTS Jeff
fortunately for u, theres a lot more to life than having a girlfriend.
Like racing your car at bud track in may. |
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| midnite |
losted, hehe brandon. :D
DMI have any plans for this weekend? ? it's supposed to be above 0! |
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| SplineZ |
Aaron that sucks! I didnt think things were that bad...
However time heals all wounds.. dont dwell on it, and things will work out for ya in the end!
James Z |
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| Pro Drag |
quote:
Originally posted by Magnum
well thanks for the advice guys... I wont be trying to work things out cause we have been not getting along for about 3-4months...
its depressing, and its a hell of a way to start the new year.. but hey.. you live you learn i guess..
Try breaking up a week before Christmas.
You might be suprised at how things can take a turn for the positive, or your eyes are opened to new ideas. |
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| Pro Drag |
quote:
Originally posted by IDiOM
Like racing your car at bud track in may.
This man knows what he speaks of.;) :beer: |
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| Magnum |
| Yeah, one of the reasons why we broke up is because i spend too much time with 780's internet/meets, and too much time and money on my car...hehe.. dedicated enthusiast right here...:bthumbup: |
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| Magnum |
quote:
Originally posted by midnite
losted, hehe brandon. :D
DMI have any plans for this weekend? ? it's supposed to be above 0!
DMI will probably make and appearance this weekend if a meet is set up 3+ cars anyways.. |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
quote:
Originally posted by Magnum
too much time and money on my car...hehe.. dedicated enthusiast right here...:bthumbup:
I personally would rather a guy be a enthusiast than have any other addictions. Hell, once I get started on my next project, I'll be doing the same thing Aaron. |
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| MightyMidget |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
Sorry to hear about it Magnum :(
Life goes on and so will you :) :)
sorry to hear about that Aaron :( ......You could always join the Military to have some sence of adventure....errrr wait a minute.......nevermind ;)
That exact same thing happened to my brother last march (2003) him and his fiancé broke up after 6 years...now he has a new gf and they just got engaged on new years and will be getting married this summer probably.
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| MightyMidget |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1
I personally would rather a guy be a enthusiast than have any other addictions. Hell, once I get started on my next project, I'll be doing the same thing Aaron.
I have to agree with Crystal.....you could be a dope head, gamble, or have much worse addictions.......cars are not addictions, they are hobbies :D
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| SpecV_Ryder2 |
S'all good Magnum..same predicament with you, just recently broke upwith my girl of 3yrs..some things aren't meant to be, just gotta go with flow now man. You got friends, chill with them and I know how it feels. it sucks, but time heals.
here's a little something
"Love is like war, easy to begin with, but hard to end".
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| Z3r03rr0r |
| Well now you can go out and be young, spend some time with your friends and not think about her (hell you never know that might have been the problem in the first place). main thing is not to let it get you down. |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by SpecV_Ryder2
"Love is like war, easy to begin with, but hard to end".
:o
I believe the quote should read:
"Love is like war, easy to begin but hard to end."
Same idea ;)
Magnum: You're still young and if cars is going to be a lifelong hobby, your future lifelong girl has to understand that :) |
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| -]TooL[- |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX
Magnum: You're still young and if cars is going to be a lifelong hobby, your future lifelong girl has to understand that :)
Bingo! The best advise IMO. You need a girl with similar interests, so you shall find. Who knows when, but thats what it will take.
She doesnt have to enjoy or be a part of your "other" interests, but respect your time, yes. |
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| MightyMidget |
:D :bthumbup:
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| djshortys |
there is times, wher eyou feel like just giving up.....:(
andy! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
quote:
Originally posted by djshortys
there is times, wher eyou feel like just giving up.....:(
I know that feeling all too well. You just have to go with your feelings. |
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| djshortys |
and if the feeling point you in the wrong direction, and there is no turning back. Then what?
andy! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| That is a risk you have to take. You cannot always go on logic only, you may miss out on being really happy. If you go with your feelings, you may make a bad decision, but how do you kow if you do not try? |
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| MightyMidget |
;)
:bthumbup:
:D
:p
:)
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| Magnum |
quote:
Originally posted by djshortys
and if the feeling point you in the wrong direction, and there is no turning back. Then what?
andy!
if your talking about suicide andy, i'm gunna kill you:bthumbup: |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1
how do you kow if you do not try?
one night stand? :dunno: :p |
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| MightyMidget |
:rolleyes:
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| Casanova |
| Do drugs... you are so numb everything feels good!! |
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| Magnum |
| well, due to my rebelious adolecence years, i am already permanantly numb... so that idea doesnt really work. |
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| Insomniac |
| did you get a rebounder yet? those help i swear |
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| lovemytrx |
| Life has lessons and this was a 6 yr one, just hope you take the lessons, successes and failures into the next relationship you have. The good thing is you know even more now what you are looking for in a partner. |
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| Spoolin MX6 |
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That is a risk you have to take. You cannot always go on logic only, you may miss out on being really happy. If you go with your feelings, you may make a bad decision, but how do you kow if you do not try?
"dope on a rope"
This criminal had commited a crime. (Because hey, that's what criminals do. That's their job.) Anyway, he was sent to the king for his punishment. The king told him he had a choice. He could be hung by a rope, or take the punishment behind the big dark scary steel door. The criminal quickly decided on the rope. As the noose was being slipped on him, he asked, "out of curiosity, what's behind that door?" The king laughed and said, "you know, its funny, I offer all you guys the same choice, and nearly all of you pick the rope." "So," said the criminal, "whats behind the door? Obviously, I won't tell anyone" he said, pointing to the noose around his neck. The king paused then answered, "Freedom, but it seems most people are so afraid of the unknown that they immediately take the rope"
All too often fear stops you from going where you need to go, don't be afraid of change.
Magnum, sorry to hear, but things will work out for the better. |
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| MightyMidget |
HOLY SHIT that was deep......:eek:
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| Spoolin MX6 |
quote:
HOLY SHIT that was deep......
lol, ONCE in a blue moon... |
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