| s2oooR |
Here's one that all of u must have experienced at some time or another...You dont have a gf...and not very many girls are checking u out or talking to u much. Then when u HAVE a gf ...the girls are all over the place, checking u out, talking to u...etc etc...u know what im talking about....
Anyways, whats everyone explanation for that? Like I mean, they might not even be checking u out or showing any interest but they still whatever...are hanging around u, wanting to talk to u, be your "friend".....
kk, here's my explanation....even if your not the greatest looking guy in the world but if your going out with a half decent chick, other girls think to themselves, "why is she goign out with him? Whats he got that makes him dating material? There must be something interesting about him...maybe I should check him out too?"...Im probably wrong but what does everyone else think? <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> ....(im bored so i decided to start up a topic <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo-->) |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
I offer another answer.
It's the attitude.
When you're single, girls radars seems to be on constant scan for "Please help me, I need a woman" attitude.
You're uptight, you're nervous, or you're jittery.
Or you make stupid jokes, you need to be cool, and not needy. Funny and witty. ie: A joke about why you're drinking beer would work better than a joke about why you're WEARING beer... get it?.
Women can sense desperation on a man at 20 paces. Plus they also need to look out for their own interests "Is he really talking to me because he wants to be with me?, or because he wants to sleep with me"
Once you stop needing, is when women feel more comfortable around you. Because you're not looking for anything, they feel they don't have to worry about you leering at them every 2 seconds. ie: When you're already in a relationship, you're not "prowling."
Somehow, women can see that, don't ask me how though...
Just my $.02 <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
*clapping hands*....this, comming from a guy with some experience! That totally makes sense Andy! Yup, that must be it <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo-->
btw, "Is he really talking to me because he wants to be with me?, or because he wants to sleep with me"...isnt that the same thing? <!--emo&:thumbs-up:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'><!--endemo--> ...lol...jk! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Andy; you got it perfect! I do not know how you do it, but you always get it right. <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo-->
R: Being with someone and sleeping with them are diffrent. You can sleep with someone without wanting to actually be with them, we call them players or jerks.
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Thank you <!--emo&:blush:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/blush.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':blush:'><!--endemo-->
I dunno, it makes sense though don't it?...
As for your question about Being with and Sleeping with, yeah, Crystal said it right...
Now I'm guessing here, Most women want a steady, stable relationship, hell, who doesn't right?, not a one night stand.
And what the hell do you mean "This coming froma guy with experience" Watzat supposed to mean huh?! <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| I knowwwwww....I said i was kiddingggg, duhhhh......LOL <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by -BlueTurboEGG
You're uptight, you're nervous, or you're jittery.
Sometimes thats not always a bad thing, u know? Like i mean, what if the guy is TOO cool about himself? At least with him being nervous and jittery, it could give the guy a sense of honesty about him, no? Like he doesnt really go up to girls ALL the time, like some of the "cool"guys do?
Like i mean....you shoulda seen me when I first went up to Maria (my gf)....i was a nervous wreck!...she thought it was cute though <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo-->....see what i mean? Like that <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Yeah, I was with Julie too, but I was able to keep cool and just asked her fast before I could think about it... <whew!>
Girls want guys to be sure of themselves but not to the point of being obnoxious.
Confidence, not cockiness. And yes, there is a difference.
(I hate to use this example, but you force my hand :) ) Take a look at Yunn's response in the "Cool Date" topic:
http://www.v8less.com/programs/forum/index...=2&t=1265&st=15
Now don't take this the wrong way or anything, I'm married :) but she is smart, collected, and down to earth, so I hope it's safe to say she knows what she wants, so I'll use her example :D (don't hurt me :huh: )
But she also makes a good point about if the Guy asks the Girl out for a date, the Guy should have a very good idea of how the evenings events should pan out if he's the initiator.
I guess it doesn't hurt. Being nervous show's inexperience which can be
attractive to a girl because there's a a chance that he really likes her.
Just depends on the girl I suppose :) |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
| ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie :P |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Andy: I doubt anyone would wonder about your love for Julie. :wub:
Once again, you are making us all jealous. ^_^ |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@Jul 30 2002, 01:40 PM
ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie :P
Wanna bet? :) |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Jul 31 2002, 03:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@Jul 30 2002, 01:40 PM
ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie :P
Wanna bet? :)
uh oh....i have a feeling Rommel's gonna get hurt
btw GUYS, you're both wrong, *cough cough* *points to himself* *nods head* |
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| s2oooR |
| ok boys, what makes u think that your girls are better than mine?.....do I hear a contest comming on?... ;) |
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| s2oooR |
:unsure: :wub:
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| BlueTurboEGG |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Jul 31 2002, 01:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@Jul 30 2002, 01:40 PM
ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie :P
Wanna bet? :)
Sorry, Rommel... but you most certainly are *NOT* my type... EVER... :lol: |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX@Jul 31 2002, 02:52 AM
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Jul 31 2002, 03:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@Jul 30 2002, 01:40 PM
ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie _:P
Wanna bet? :)
uh oh....i have a feeling Rommel's gonna get hurt
btw GUYS, you're both wrong, *cough cough* *points to himself* *nods head*
Look, do I have to spell it for you guys?!, |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX@Jul 31 2002, 02:52 AM
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Jul 31 2002, 03:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@Jul 30 2002, 01:40 PM
ps. In case some of you are wondering... Nobody beats my Julie _:P
Wanna bet? :)
uh oh....i have a feeling Rommel's gonna get hurt
btw GUYS, you're both wrong, *cough cough* *points to himself* *nods head*
Eye (me)
AM (morning)
NOT (Whaynes World)
GAY (Fagalis)
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| BlueTurboEGG |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Jul 31 2002, 06:03 AM
ok boys, what makes u think that your girls are better than mine?.....do I hear a contest comming on?... ;)
Hey, I don't have to prove anything I already know :P |
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| s2oooR |
Are u SURE your not my type? Cuz honestly, I swear I saw u looking at my ass a few times....I saw those winks and I cant forget those googly eyes u made at me...like this :blink: .....and then when u got a boner... :huh: :unsure: :) ,,,,,,,,,but thats ok....thats B)
:lol: :lol: :lol: |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Okay you guys!!!! My girl is the best so :P !!! hehehe
I have been up since 6, don't mind me.....
Actually, all of you guys are excellent boyfriends (and husbands) so no competing! |
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| s2oooR |
| im an excellent bf :D |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Yes you are! Always trying so hard with Maria!! ^_^
I have to admit, my hun is an excellent guy too. :wub:
I think almost, if not all the guys on this forum are really great bfs!! |
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| s2oooR |
| Im the B) est one here though :lol: ^_^ |
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| masterv |
| dear god is AN softening up???? :lol: |
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| REFLUX |
my god....i leave for a few days and THIS happens?!?!?
idiots.......
:blink:
(some googly eyes for BOTH Andy's & Rommel's ass..........*drool*)
:D |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I think we're all feeling a little sappy the past few days...... I am just happy as happy can be, so thats my excuse... whats everyone else's? :P |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
I dunno, things are ok I guess :)
Great wife, good ride, good music... There seems to be a strange Galactic balance... rather unusual...
Just saw Lilo and Stitch... Stitch is my new Hero next to Mashi Maro... ^_^ |
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| REFLUX |
| i'm havin fun as well, but missing my gf (she sounded sad on the fone last nite.....so i'm jus a lil worried) :( |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Awwww, it'll be okay Terry. She will be happy to have you home..... You guys made it doing the LD thing for a while, a week is not going to be too bad.
I'd miss my guy, but I get to curl up with him every day! :wub: hehehe... sorry, I did mean to gloat..... :P |
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| REFLUX |
Yeh i hope she'll be ok........
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Damn you Crystal...... |
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| s2oooR |
| better hope Matrix guy doesnt read that....lol |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX@Aug 2 2002, 04:34 AM
my god....i leave for a few days and THIS happens?!?!?
idiots.......
:blink:
(some googly eyes for BOTH Andy's & Rommel's ass..........*drool*)
:D
Yeah, i dondt know what happend!.... :wacko:
Andy <_< |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX@Aug 2 2002, 09:21 PM
i'm havin fun as well, but missing my gf (she sounded sad on the fone last nite.....so i'm jus a lil worried) :(
I miss mine too ...and this weather isnt helping either! There's nothing to do! :angry: |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 2 2002, 02:51 AM
better hope Matrix guy doesnt read that....lol
oh sush you... I don't know about him anyways, he did not seem THAT intrested. :( Oh well, when you least expect it, you find what you are looking for..... ^_^ |
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| s2oooR |
| What if he's interested now? .....u said he seemed interested beforeeeeee? :wub: .....sounded like u were kinda into him ^_^ |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I was.... He is a really sweet great guy. I just get easily discouraged...... so if someone does not seem that intrested, I will not risk persuing it. Call me a chicken, but I guess I really am. That and with me moving out to Van, the LD thing would really suck. You know all about that Rommel..... I guess I was thinking of him first, because I really do not want to get really involved with someone then just move away. |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
are you agreeing with me Terry???
YAY!! you get to see your gf soon! :wub: |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1@Aug 5 2002, 04:42 AM
are you agreeing with me Terry???
YAY!! you get to see your gf soon! :wub:
1) yes i'm agreeing with you
2) yes i did get to see my gf soon....and boy did it feel good!!!!
:D missed her so much i didn't know wat to say wen i saw her :) |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Terry: hello usually works in times like that. ;)
Thank you for agreeing... I am really happy with the way things turned out for me right now, you saw how pathetically domestic I have become!! EEEKKK!!! Its all good.... :wub: |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1@Aug 6 2002, 09:43 PM
Terry: hello usually works in times like that. ;)
LOL
but HELLO seems too....."distant-like"
i think hugs say "hello" much better than your mouth ;) |
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