| Is it normal to... - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| s2oooR |
Have a rollercoaster of emotions when your significant other is gone for awhile?
Anyways, I've been from "ugh! I miss her" to "why'd she have to leave? :(" to "why doesnt she CALL?! :angry: "
Ever feel that way? Hope Im back to the "ugh! I miss her" part, by the time she comes back :P |
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| REFLUX |
yes!! i SO have rollercoaster emotions too
but i have'm even wen we're in the same city (wen i'm worried about her)
so yeh...i'm pretty sure it's normal Rommel, i feel for u dood
jus think of it this way, it'll be THAT much sweeter wen u see her again! :D |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
All the frickin' time.
Don't worry about it, you're just normal (or stalker mentality) :lol: |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| Don't worry Rommel, you always have the rollercoaster when it comes to someone you really care about. Your mind goes into overdrive, and you start worrying. It is natural, just don't let it get the best of you. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
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Originally posted by GirlRacer P1@Aug 8 2002, 12:52 PM
Don't worry Rommel, you always have the rollercoaster when it comes to someone you really care about. Your mind goes into overdrive, and you start worrying. It is natural, just don't let it get the best of you.
Yeah, Rommel, just remember Patience... see my little post about that :) |
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| s2oooR |
Thanks for the advice guys or info, rather! :)
patience...ugh! I wish I wasnt so spoiled sometimes....
...I still dont see why she hasnt called though :( she hasnt called the whole time she's been there! if she doesnt call even when she gets back, I'll be pissed! :angry: I miss her! how come she doenst miss me back?! :angry: ......well, she said in an email to me that she has only called her parents twice so far ...and thats not that much....but still....coulda called me once at least, u know? :(
Stalker mentality? where'd u get THAT from?...lol.....I dont care WHAT she doessss....I just wanna hear her voice and tell me that she misses me as much as I miss her! And email doesnt count!....at least I dont think it does...not as much as a phone call anyways....she sent me a post card though....woo!..LOL......yeahhh...one of those postcards that come with a bunch of other postcards? u know, the kind u tear off...send it...then tear off the next one and send it to somene else?....Am i starting to get too picky?....LOLOL. |
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| REFLUX |
1) Rommel, i have never seen postcards sold in PACKS @ tourist shops (always single)
2) Maybe she DOES miss you as much as you miss her; she misses you too much already & hearing your voice is not going to help
3) don't always get so upset if you don't hear from her ("I" do it myself, but i'm trying to calm myself down)
THINK POSITIVE
have a little bit of FAITH in your woman & in your relationship!!!
:) |
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| s2oooR |
I guess your right on the last point but the second one doesnt sound plausible to me....and the first one...I could show u the postcard :P definitely been torn away from something else at the top and at the bottom....probably other postcards that were connected to it?
Anyways, no use thinking/worrying about it now....she'll be home in 4-5 days! :) :wub: |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 9 2002, 07:04 PM
Anyways, no use thinking/worrying about it now....she'll be home in 4-5 days! :) :wub:
exaaaaactly |
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| s2oooR |
| wish she'd come home a bit later now :(....(see other post) |
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| REFLUX |
take it easy Rommel
jus take things SLOWLY when Maria comes home
and if you need to take your mind off things....put up a BIG post for an AN meet ;) |
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| s2oooR |
Woooooooo!!!!.....she comes home TODAY!!!!!!! :D
Its about fricken TIMEEEEEE?!!!!!! LOL (Maria) :wub: |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
YAY ROMMEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Glad to see that Maria is back finally, you missed her like crazy!
Now get out here and see her!!!! :wub: :wub: :wub: |
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| s2oooR |
| have to talk to her first :P What if she has some other excuse that I cant come over?...LOL ....or that SHE cant come over?....its her turn, anyways :P |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| Who cares who's turn it is?? It was my best friend's turn to come out to Edmonton, but guess where I am?? Just go see her! |
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| REFLUX |
Yeah man, dont start keepin track of "who's turn it is"
it'll only create problems
it's not who's turn it is; it is "what's easier for whom & who's more willing"
love is all about giving, not receiving |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by REFLUX@Aug 13 2002, 05:01 AM
Yeah man, dont start keepin track of "who's turn it is"
it'll only create problems
it's not who's turn it is; it is "what's easier for whom & who's more willing"
love is all about giving, not receiving
Thats BS.....usually im pretty good with that but now im pissed! She didnt call me tonight orrrr come online tonight! Now Im pretty sure she said that she'd be back on the 12th....unless she meant she's heading HOME on the 12th? Either way, i think she could have called me at least ONCE during the whole time she was gone to let me know that or even just to say, "hi, i miss u!".....but no!....couldnt find time in the month she was there....
Did u know I emailed her at least once a day the whole time she was gone? dont know if i said that already or not? Anyways, I did.....and yeah.....I didnt mind it at all....i liked telling her how I was doing, etc etc....so yeah....im "more willing" to do all that stuff cuz its easier for me that it is for her......like i said, I didnt mind....but come on....she cant make a tiny phone call? not one?
ok....fine....lets say she's got some good excuse for that.....too expensive or couldnt find a phone that works or something....its possible, it could happen....but remember the time when I went to Maui for like 10 days or something? she ended up getting invited to go to some conference in Montreal like 3 days after I left? Apparently she was notified only one day before her flight. So anyways....guess what? I didnt even get an email from her saying that she'd be gone when I get home...so I was worrying the whole time!....I cant believe she didnt have the TIME to let me know she was going away for a week or whatever it was?! she coulda had the decency to do that, u know? So yeah......im really not about "who's turn it is" but when its always YOUR TURN, it kinda gets on your nerves after awhile, u know?
Why dont we continue with this......do u know how many times she's called me the whole time we've been going out? NOT MANY! Ive called her at least twice as many times as she's called me....and u know when she left for europe? I called her 4 times 2 days before she left. Once, 30 seconds after I got off the phone with her cuz i just missed her already and the other time, her phone died and so I waited for her to call me back....but she didnt. I ended up calling her back later on that day (I had to go to work).....but she apologized for not calling me back though :D (can u tell im being sarcastic?) andddd she even said that she shoulda called me back.... :D :D
....but u know what, your right.....Love is all about giving, not recieving.....I do the giving, she does the recieving :angry: |
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| s2oooR |
You know what? Im so confident that she wont call me when she arrives at home, that I'll bet my S2000 that she doesnt call....she'll probably just send me an email or something.....and tell me how much she missed me and how much fun she had in europe with her friends....blah blah blah....
I dont think I would even want to talk to her at this point cuz im so pissed...on here or on the phone :( |
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| REFLUX |
dood..................... :(
sorry i jumped on you like that
i didn't know the entire story (at least not how strongly you felt about it)
honestly Rommel, i feel for you man, i dont know what to say.......... :unsure:
if i were a girl i'd offer you a hug..............Crystal, mind if you substitute??? |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Rommel: I am actually speechless....... :unsure:
Here is a hug though... *BIG HUG*
Hope it helps. |
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| s2oooR |
Thanks guys :)
....totally needed that....
I'll let u know how it turns out :) |
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| s2oooR |
Guess what? ....STILL havnt heard from her....its almost 1am august 14! We'll just say 13....just cuz its only been really one day....lol.
Damn, she BETTER have a good excuse when I get a chance to talk to her! :angry: |
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| s2oooR |
| sucks ass.....ive been waiting for like an hour and a half already! ....Heck, I dont even know why im waiting? :lol: .......i must look pretty pathetic right about now....LOL.....im going to bed! |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 14 2002, 01:00 AM
i must look pretty pathetic right about now....LOL.....im going to bed!
no man
ur jus a guy who's head over heels :D |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
Rommel........ *hug* Have you tried calling her? You're not pathetic.... don't worry about that, you just love her. I think any guy here would do the same thing.
*hug* |
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| s2oooR |
Reflex (LOL): thanks again, big guy! :) :)
GR: Show me your thong :D :wub: |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| Ayia!!!!!!! Rommel! you pervert! |
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| masterv |
| i'll show u my thong Rommel! :wub: |
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| REFLUX |
shudap Rommel
it's reflUx
bastard |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1@Aug 15 2002, 03:43 AM
Ayia!!!!!!! Rommel! you pervert!
WHAT?!!! you didnt mind beforeeeeeee *wink wink* ....remember? BEFORE??? ^_^ |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by masterv@Aug 15 2002, 05:31 AM
i'll show u my thong Rommel! :wub:
Really? ....*waiting in anticipation* :lol: |
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| s2oooR |
anyways, back on topic....
I talked to her from about 10-10:30pm....we agreed that we'd meet back at 12 midnight...but she never showed up!
Now if that happend to any of you guys, what wuold u do? :( |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
You didn't talk to her last night after I talked to you??
Hmmmmm.....
I'd be quite upset if I was in that situation, but then again, I am a girl, I am always bitching about things. I dunno what to do Rommel.... so I can't offer advice right now for this. Maybe just talk to her about it? |
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| s2oooR |
| will do!.....keep u guys posted :) |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1@Aug 15 2002, 07:03 PM
You didn't talk to her last night after I talked to you??
Nope, i never talked to her that night and I never talked to her tonight, either :(
Its probably the jet lag, hey?
Crystal, you said u would be upset if he missed the first night u guys were supposed to talk....so your saying that jet lag is no excuse? Im sure thats what I would have used if it were me in maria's position.
Im pretty forgiving/tolerant...whatever u wanna call it....but two nights in a row? she could have at least emailed me telling me that she was still feeling a bit jet lagged and tired so I woudlnt have to wait up so late, no?
I guess id like to know....how much would u guys take before getting upset at whats going on? |
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| s2oooR |
I also wouldnt be surprised if her friends took her out tommorow night (friday night) for a welcome home party. So I guess u could throw either sat. or friday night out the window for getting a chance to talk to her...lol.
Anyways, I think im going out with the guys tommorow night....not gonna take that crap anymore....not like she's gonna be there anyways, right? :lol: |
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| s2oooR |
Oh yeah....she DID send me an email in the morning basically saying sorry for falling asleep on me the other day....im sure i'll get another one tommorow morning :)
Dont u guys find it alittle weird that she doesnt call when she's in europe for a month cuz of a bad phone card, its expensive, and the time difference (maybe those are good excuses, who knows?)? isnt it even MORE weird that she doesnt feel the need/urge to call me when she gets back home?! Like i mean, for most people who are gone for a good month...they would usually wanna hear their bf/gf's voice, no? |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
R: Sounds like you're getting screwed, and not in a good way either....
May I suggest somethign you might not like too much? Get yourself a decent girl that actually cares about your feelings! Sorry, but Maria is starting to piss me off, and I am a heck of a lot closer to her than you right now. |
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| REFLUX |
Rommel:
do what you feel is right
i dont want to tell you to continue pulling your hair out over Maria, but i DO NOT want to tell you to give up on her either
do what you feel is right
good luck man |
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| DrunkenGoddess |
:mellow:
^_^
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha :lol:
sorry about that outburst.. it's just been the VERY FIRST TIME i've ever witnessed a GUY pull a stress-session =P
and i always thought it was the girl who did all those "ugh"s.. "why hasn't he called"s ^_^
glad for you she's back :) |
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| s2oooR |
Yeah, its been pretty awful....but these guys'll tell u that i always pull stress sessions :P
Actually, reflux does too :P ^_^ |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
I think we all do, but most of us do not show it... Rommel; you and Terry know about my stress sessions, but I think thats about all that know....
I am really happy for you to be seeing her soon! When you come down here, we'll have to go out... the four of us! Sound good? |
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| s2oooR |
| for sure....I'll ask her next time i talk to her, which should be tonight! :D |
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| REFLUX |
so........you talked with Maria i'm assuming???
wat's been happenin then?? i'm so outdated |
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| s2oooR |
she's comming over!!!
....next week! :D
Im so excited! ....and then im going over there next weekend :) |
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| DrunkenGoddess |
^_^ awwwwwwwwwwwwwww
cutest thing i read all day =} :P
*sighs* :mellow:
now if only MY relationships worked out so nicely.. <_< |
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| s2oooR |
I dont see why it couldnt???
Like i mean.....this is what works for me and Maria when we get into a really big fight.....she or I get up and get right down to it...."do u still love me?"..LOL...its right to the point and it kinda gets u to the stuff that really matters....so whatever it was u were fighting about....just dissappears because if both of u still love each other...then nothing else really matters :) |
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