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Hwo do you know if your BF/GF is cheating on you? - Click HERE for Original Thread

dmora
What do you peepz look for?

REFLUX
look out for your partner being distant from you

they seem less interested in you, spend more time with their friends/other people than usual

give excuses not to see you

BlueTurboEGG
Good points Reflux,

If I may add: when you are together, spends less attention on you.

Uncharacteristically flirtatous with other girls/guys

Bimmer
I agree, if they don't pay attention to you, it's usually a good sign.  Either that or she's just not really interested in you in the first place.

REFLUX
hehe thanx, i speak from personal experience
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circle
I think those might be signs for someone wanting to break up, but maybe not from someone who is cheating.

I think people cheating start making up excuses on whereabouts, and in some cases, actually treat you better.

Genki
Yea Circle is right... they would want to hide it and not show any obvious signs.

masterv
exactly...look for sudden changes in behavior...whether it's gettin nervous while u look at her straight or unwilling to do nething or respond....that's when u should really pay attention to what exactly they do on their spare time...

REFLUX
i thot wen someone cheats on you........they naturally want 2 break up

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Scintillater
Excuses.  Definately excuses.  Shifty eyes.  Lipstick on collar.  Pants bulging after coming outta the broom closet without you!  *Heheheh*  *jk*  How to tell?  Unless they have absolutely NO conscience, then just minor changes in behavior such as more excuses, less time spent with you, less PDA than before, and sleeplessness.

Genki
whats PDA?

Scintillater
PDA: public display of affection.

Generally, just ASK straight out, very calmly and seriously and if you're willing to forgive, then say so.  Don't say you're not though if you want a REAL answer.  And if you can't trust the person, and you think they're cheating on you and you can't get over your suspicion no matter what even if they say they're not, then a: your instincts are really great, dump them, or b: there's something wrong with YOUR trust, and you should just break up with them if you can't trust them.

s2oooR
if she says, "thats fine" or "fine"....if she says that alot...id think she was at the very LEAST, mad at u....LOL.  Also, from personal experience.




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