| Casual Dating - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| Scintillater |
| Is it acceptable now a days for girls to casually date people? I mean just for company, a good time hanging out and stuff like that? No emotional commitment, and distance physically? Basically, how does one go about making SURE the other half realizes that you don't want to take this any farther, and just enjoy their company as a "date" and stuff? |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
I don't know about acceptable, but it is more common for girls to be doing that now.
haha, the best way to make sure is to keep dating other guys.. but that is not always the nicest thing to do. Best thing to do wuld be talk to him right from the start, and tell him you do not want anything serious, or commited, but enjoy his company. Or else you could just see him off and on, and do what all the guys do to us girls.... |
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| REFLUX |
ahhaahaahhahaahha
u sure u dont think w/ ur wang Vince??? |
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| Scintillater |
| i don't do the playah thing...you play, and get played back. Be prepared to be burned, coz what goes around comes around. |
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| REFLUX |
hahaha u DINK!
:cool: |
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| Talented |
| I like the fact that girls are "casual dating" now. Before it was really frowned upon by older people, like a girl is considered slutty if she has dated a few guys. <p>I think it's important to find out what you like in someone, and to do this it requires that you date more people to get a comparision. Thoughts? |
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| Genki |
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Quote: from Talented on 10:50 am on Oct. 16, 2001
I think it's important to find out what you like in someone, and to do this it requires that you date more people to get a comparision. _Thoughts?[/b][/quote]<p>I totally agree.. hehe too bad im almost married <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://www.asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Quote: from Talented on 10:50 am on Oct. 16, 2001
Before it was really frowned upon by older people, like a girl is considered slutty if she has dated a few guys. [/b][/quote]<p>Unfortunatly, it is still like that, although not as much by the elders as by a girl's peers. If you are even out with more than one guy and people see you, you can be considered a slut. Or if you do not date a guy long enough, you cabn be considered a slut. The double standars are terrible, but it is one of the things we face as girls. |
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| REFLUX |
yea #### skanks
it's pretty hard cuz we still live in a society with traditionalistic views
specially in smaller cities hehe |
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| 84-1010953184 |
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Quote: from Genki on 1<!--emo&:0--><img src="http://www.asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'><!--endemo-->4 pm on Oct. 16, 2001
<p>I totally agree.. hehe too bad im almost married <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://www.asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo-->
[/b][/quote]<p>Almost?? you ARE married man.. hahahhaha<p>Tin... |
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| Genki |
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Quote: from TinmaN on 4:12 pm on Nov. 20, 2001
Almost?? you ARE married man.. hahahhaha<p>Tin...[/b][/quote]<p>Hey! yes almost <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://www.asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> not quite yet! hehe |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by Dublin_19
bump!
What are you doing????
At least fugumerkur doesn't realize he's posting in threads from the pleistocene era (most of the time) and when he does post, it's got some actual content.
Post count reset, user title change.
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| Dublin_19 |
i didnt realize it was old i fucked up
ugh now i look retarded |
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| Jojdm |
quote:
Originally posted by GirlRacer P1
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border="0" align="center" width="95%" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1"><tr><td>Quote </td></tr><tr><td id="QUOTE"><!--QuoteEBegin-->Quote: from Talented on 10:50 am on Oct. 16, 2001
Before it was really frowned upon by older people, like a girl is considered slutty if she has dated a few guys.
<p>Unfortunatly, it is still like that, although not as much by the elders as by a girl's peers. If you are even out with more than one guy and people see you, you can be considered a slut. Or if you do not date a guy long enough, you cabn be considered a slut. The double standars are terrible, but it is one of the things we face as girls. [/B][/QUOTE]
yes, if a girl is fooling around with more than one guy she is a slut no doubt in my mind.... |
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| trogdor |
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yes, if a girl is fooling around with more than one guy she is a slut no doubt in my mind.... [/B][/QUOTE]
You have got to be kidding????
When I left my husband the last thing I wanted was another "relationship" so I dated a few guys at the same time, big deal. Girls have as much a right to fun as anyone else.
There is nothing wrong with casual sex. And as for the whole "socially acceptable" part. . . who the fcuk cares???
I do whatever I want and as long as I don't hurt anyone it's nobody's business. |
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| Jojdm |
[ so I dated a few guys at the same time, big deal. "
when I saying fooling around I mean fucking.
so when you say dating, I am assuming you mean the same. :D |
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| trogdor |
| What's the point of dating if you're not fucking? |
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| REFLUX |
I suppose it's "ok" to judge women as being slutty when being with multiple partners if the guy himself is not into that stuff.
But it's hypocritical to think that it's ok for guys but not for girls.
IMO, if you measure people with a certain standard, you should measure yourself to that same standard too. |
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| STiPWR |
See this is how it works...
Men fuck... they're players
Women fuck... they're sluts.
Thats how it is... I didnt make the rule. |
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| trogdor |
| I refuse to live by those rules. I make my own damn rules. |
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| liveforspd |
| trogdor is your a chick what are you up to this weekend |
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| arabian_ryda |
| haha. so your seeing a couple guys at once and u think thats ok and u wont hurt anyone pleeease that what all chicks think. so how dos it work u get one guy then another hotter one with a nice car comes along and u switch to him and so on rite. |
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| STiPWR |
quote:
Originally posted by arabian_ryda
haha. so your seeing a couple guys at once and u think thats ok and u wont hurt anyone pleeease that what all chicks think. so how dos it work u get one guy then another hotter one with a nice car comes along and u switch to him and so on rite.
Lol, so true.... women just keep upgrading.
But then again...... so do us men. |
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| trogdor |
No, when I was dating a few (3) guys they all knew about it. They all were made aware of the fact the it was just for fun, no strings, no possibility of a relationship. None of them seemed to mind.
And I will be busy with my boyfriend this weekend, at autox and in the garage. Hehehe
The whole multi-dating thing is in my past. I found one guy that gives me all I need. |
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| diesekiel |
quote:
Originally posted by liveforspd
trogdor is your a chick what are you up to this weekend
LOOOOOOOOOOOL! |
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| diesekiel |
quote:
Originally posted by trogdor
No, when I was dating a few (3) guys they all knew about it. They all were made aware of the fact the it was just for fun, no strings, no possibility of a relationship. None of them seemed to mind.
And I will be busy with my boyfriend this weekend, at autox and in the garage. Hehehe
The whole multi-dating thing is in my past. I found one guy that gives me all I need.
Has your boyfriend been made aware of your past feeding frenzy? |
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| trogdor |
| Yup. He knows everything. I wouldn't say he doesn't mind, but the past is past. |
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| Jojdm |
quote:
Originally posted by trogdor
No, when I was dating a few (3) guys they all knew about it. .
wow you go after some real winners, ...... nice and sleazy. |
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| ehrgeiz |
quote:
Originally posted by Jojdm
wow you go after some real winners, ...... nice and sleazy.
Weak sauce... personal life style choices. Avoiding monogamy doesn't instantly award someone the title of a sleazy loser.
I could say you're a pussy for only sticking with one girl, but I won't because it's dumb and ignorant. |
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| EK9Hatch |
quote:
Originally posted by liveforspd
trogdor is your a chick what are you up to this weekend
Excellent grammar!
Jamie |
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| trogdor |
quote:
Originally posted by Jojdm
wow you go after some real winners, ...... nice and sleazy.
Perhaps that's what I was looking for. . . .
Sleazy can be pretty satisfying sometimes, you should try it. |
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| midnite |
i don't see what the big deal is. if you are not looking for a relationship, and the people you are seeing don't have a problem with it, who cares.
this goes for guys and girls. have some fun! |
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| arabian_ryda |
quote:
Originally posted by trogdor
Perhaps that's what I was looking for. . . .
Sleazy can be pretty satisfying sometimes, you should try it.
i love the way u talk. we need more chicks like this.
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| trogdor |
quote:
Originally posted by arabian_ryda
i love the way u talk. we need more chicks like this.
:thumbup:
Good luck with that, in all my life I've only met maybe 2 girls that are cool.
For the most part, girls (women/chicks/bitches . . whatever) suck! |
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| arabian_ryda |
| ya alomost every girl i know is freinds with guys only. chciks dont get along and the ones that do treat guys like shit. |
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| Jojdm |
For the most part, girls (women/chicks/bitches . . whatever) suck! [/B][/QUOTE]
Why cause they don't automatically spread their legs open for all the guy friends???? :thumbup: |
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| trogdor |
Why cause they don't automatically spread their legs open for all the guy friends???? :thumbup: [/B][/QUOTE]
No. Because most girls (that I've known) are dumb, manipulative, selfish, arrogant, completely self-involved and annoying.
That is just my opinion. It has nothing to do with sex. Why do you think I would care if girls put out or not? That's silly. |
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| arabian_ryda |
| u forgot liars. its funny i treat a chick like shit llike ditch call her names make fun of her lie u know shit like that and she wont stop calling/talking tio me but act nice and ill really like this girl and i get the total opposite .its as if they want to be treated bad hahaha its all a game really to much pride some people. |
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| midnite |
| ^ shows of aggression are a natural female aphrodisiac. |
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| Jojdm |
| I must say it is quite an empowering feeling when you tell them to beat it ..... and they won't take no for an answer. |
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| RangerMan |
quote:
Originally posted by STiPWR
See this is how it works...
Men fuck... they're players
Women fuck... they're sluts.
Thats how it is... I didnt make the rule.
whats with all the quotes in the posts that are fubar |
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| stealth |
quote:
Originally posted by arabian_ryda
u forgot liars. its funny i treat a chick like shit llike ditch call her names make fun of her lie u know shit like that and she wont stop calling/talking tio me but act nice and ill really like this girl and i get the total opposite .its as if they want to be treated bad hahaha its all a game really to much pride some people.
If you spit in their face, they get really horny.:thumbup: |
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| arabian_ryda |
| hahaha have u tryed that wheat? |
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| Jojdm |
| Nacho vidal style........ |
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