| Have u ever cheated? - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| arabian_ryda |
| pretty simple have u ever cheated on the girl you where seeing/dating? |
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| REFLUX |
| I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I've never cheated. |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I've never cheated.
I agree live by the Golden rule! I had previous gf's that cheated on me so I cheated on them. Thats the only time. Im with my SO and things are different I would never cheat on her ever even if she did. |
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| DomesticDrifter |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I've never cheated.
agreed |
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| Stainless |
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Originally posted by Markgase2000
I agree live by the Golden rule! I had previous gf's that cheated on me so I cheated on them. Thats the only time. Im with my SO and things are different I would never cheat on her ever even if she did.
I did that once. Turns out the woman I loved ended up being a whoore, and I felt it was neccessary to even the table. I was worried enough from what I heard about her exploits that I had to get the dreaded cock-swab to be sure she didn't infect me with anything. And I made sure the cheat-ee was someone she knew. Maybe a best friend or something. The karma worked out in the end.
Since then (several years) I've been single. Might be a trust issue, although there might be a girl I am yearning for now.
The worst thing is I am afraid of making any moves because I don't know if I can trust her. |
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| dance_of_curse |
| she cheated on me...fucking hell....meh its done and done...trust issues suck when your 17:p but w/e....thats what booze is for...:beer: |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by Stainless
I did that once. Turns out the woman I loved ended up being a whoore, and I felt it was neccessary to even the table. I was worried enough from what I heard about her exploits that I had to get the dreaded cock-swab to be sure she didn't infect me with anything. And I made sure the cheat-ee was someone she knew. Maybe a best friend or something. The karma worked out in the end.
Since then (several years) I've been single. Might be a trust issue, although there might be a girl I am yearning for now.
The worst thing is I am afraid of making any moves because I don't know if I can trust her.
I been there man , hate the swabs down the shafto erectious! I day=ted this girl for 3 years on and off mostly on. She cheated on me like 20 times 20 different guys and got pregnant from one of them. Man I was pissed! The one that got her pregnant was a good friend of mine. Wow I beat the shit out of him and laughed when she screamed at me in the process. I had to :dunno: the cheating odds were 20-1 her to me. I cheated on her after she cheated and admitted it to me after several times several guys.
Wow I was a dumbass to follow her around. She became a hooker after she had the kid and thats all I know now. Another girl I dated cheated on me with another girl. I was confused so I screwed her best friend. Wow If I didnt realize that 2 girls having sex was hot beyond the fact that I loved her blindly I woulda been set. Now when I think of it I get horny "MY ex gf was Bi and she told me like I would be impressed" I shoulda I coulda banged her friend lol and had wicked 3sums. :blink:
Now its just a useless memory :dunno:
F! trust , have fun play or date whatever you want stainless. Just have fun ok promise? Oh and wrap it up Im sure you wont have trouble tapping ass jsut get over the past (not as easy as it sounds) but atleast try ok? |
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| tokes |
| I asked about the whole STD test swab thingie before, and the general consensus is that if you had a competent tester they should have used some novocaine on it to numb it and you shouldn't feel a thing ;) |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by tokes
I asked about the whole STD test swab thingie before, and the general consensus is that if you had a competent tester they should have used some novocaine on it to numb it and you shouldn't feel a thing ;)
Ya when he said "swab" he was talkin the new method I could tell. He hasnt gotten the novacaine thing cus now they just dip the tip. When I got swabbed it was almost into my bladder. They udes a metal tube that ejected a swab kinda like a gun barrel cleaning prod. Only the prod comes out when they pull the trigger. Goes in kinda hurts is cold as hell then they pull the trigger and its rip cord time baby! OMG bad memories........................ |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by bigmack000
Nope
Haha the nexus whore collector wants to educate us WOO ooOOT! :thumbup:
Give it to us Big Mac and not the sugar coated version. |
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| bigmack000 |
| haha i don't knwow hat your talkign abtou mark:P :lol: |
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| SketchifisT |
In theory no? not in an actual relationship, I was "seeing" someone and i kissed another girl...
Its karma pretty much if you cheat someone will cheat on you. Either way it hurts a shit load when it happens thats why i dont want to do it to someone else |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by SketchifisT
In theory no? not in an actual relationship, I was "seeing" someone and i kissed another girl...
Its karma pretty much if you cheat someone will cheat on you. Either way it hurts a shit load when it happens thats why i dont want to do it to someone else
I understand. Women consider kissing another woman cheating tho its kinda silly IMO well Unless its open mouthed and all then they have a right to get ticked I guess.
Karma I get it its all about the Karma yes this is true. Karma will affect you in a way called "Your concience" unless your heartless you wont have one of those..............
It does hurt :( so I dont reccomend doin it. |
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| bluecargirl666 |
| only after i found out he cheated, and i knew it was over anyway. |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by bluecargirl666
only after i found out he cheated, and i knew it was over anyway.
Did you feel bad about doing it even tho he cheated first?
I did :( but I got over it. |
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| SketchifisT |
Well how i have viewed it , is if you are plannin on cheatin the relationship has an issue that needs to be solved, if that issue cant be solved then end the relationship.
Just because someone cheated on me doesn't mean ima go do it back. Then its even steven and you are no better then them. As soon as they cheat end the relationship then do whatever and if they come back you can just say what happend after the relationship.
For me its Once a cheater always a cheater, because theres a certain mindset for them. Sometimes cheaters dont cheat again because they fight it, but majority have this kind of mentality that its alright do it, if the relationship is on rocky grounds.
Im not tryin to judge others thats just from what i have gathered from my knowledge. All the girls i know that have cheated , have done it more then once and express it as a problem they have. |
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| bluecargirl666 |
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Originally posted by Markgase2000
Did you feel bad about doing it even tho he cheated first?
I did :( but I got over it.
I dunno.. it had been over for a few months.. and it just took me awhile to realize he didnt care about me anymore. I guess what i'm trying to say is that I didn't feel bad -for whatever reasons, that i felt betrayed, lost.. It wasn't really a getting even thing either, I felt it was more like moving on.
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Originally posted by SketchifisT
Well how i have viewed it , is if you are plannin on cheatin the relationship has an issue that needs to be solved, if that issue cant be solved then end the relationship.
Just because someone cheated on me doesn't mean ima go do it back. Then its even steven and you are no better then them. As soon as they cheat end the relationship then do whatever and if they come back you can just say what happend after the relationship.
For me its Once a cheater always a cheater, because theres a certain mindset for them. Sometimes cheaters dont cheat again because they fight it, but majority have this kind of mentality that its alright do it, if the relationship is on rocky grounds.
Im not tryin to judge others thats just from what i have gathered from my knowledge. All the girls i know that have cheated , have done it more then once and express it as a problem they have.
I disagree about you're opinion that 'once a cheater always a cheater'. I know some people use it as the easy way out, or use it as 'im going to hurt you before you hurt me'. I think for those reasons the issue is maturity.
I'm not happy the way things ended for me in that relationship, but at this point i wouldnt have the outcome any other way. |
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| SketchifisT |
Well Yes i agree to a certain point with that, with "once a cheater always a cheater" There are certain times when people have cheated where they just did it for a silly reason ( granted i think all reasons are silly but some more so ) However it when you cheat because you haven't talked to your boyfriend in 2 days and the cute guy who is flirtin with you asks you out to the bar and things go from there , those are the people who struggle with it IMO .
Im sayin this from personal experience with my last girlfriend, after 1 bad phone call she struggles with if she is going to go out with a random guy to the bar or not, She is one of those " once a cheater always a cheater "
Anyways i hate lumpin everyone into 1 catagory so i apologize for making a summarizing statement. But just from what i have seen , the statement holds some truth. Not fully but some, more so to the lines " If you cheated before, you may have problems shakin off the stereo-type of Once a cheater always a cheater so you give up and just keep doing it " or " I will only cheat until i find the perfect significant other "
either way as long as the person admits what they did was wrong and dont try and be like Well it was your fault because she was hot or he was hot?? Just admit you cheated , forgive and move on and just go from there. |
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| Markgase2000 |
Thanks for the reply BlueCarGirl666 :)
I dont believe "once a cheater always a cheater" either. Were just big dumb animals and our reactions to life learning can easily result in unpredicable behaviour. Its when it becomes compulsive is when it becomes a problem.
Fist its all good tho your pretty smart guy but your still a big dumb animal like the rest of us :) no offence tho buddy lol |
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| SketchifisT |
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Originally posted by Markgase2000
Fist its all good tho your pretty smart guy but your still a big dumb animal like the rest of us :) no offence tho buddy lol
Neg i know im a dumb animal like t he rest of you guys, i just learned how to hide it better :D Ive screwed up many a time, my screws ups are more so with idiotic things ive done at the end of break ups. But that is a different story ;) |
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| dc2696 |
| Couldn't do it, the thought of breaking her heart...no way. |
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| bluecargirl666 |
| aaaw! thats so sweet.. :wub: |
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| Insomniac |
my gf says if i cheat on her i'll end up in little pieces floating down the river. sad thing is, she doesn't even crack a smile or laugh when she tells me this
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| bluecargirl666 |
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Originally posted by Insomniac
my gf says if i cheat on her i'll end up in little pieces floating down the river. sad thing is, she doesn't even crack a smile or laugh when she tells me this
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haha.. u got told |
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| Insomniac |
| you're right. remind me to slap some sense into her later next week. |
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| bluecargirl666 |
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Originally posted by Insomniac
you're right. remind me to slap some sense into her later next week.
done and done |
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| Markgase2000 |
There was a statistic brought up in the past for Edmonton loyal married couples. They said women who were married scored like 70+% and men were like 50%ish.
Anybody else know anything about this? |
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| midnite |
nope, but i've been cheated on.
i've heard many times that women are more likely to cheat, but let likely to tell anyone about it. |
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| Markgase2000 |
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Originally posted by midnite
i've heard many times that women are more likely to cheat, but let likely to tell anyone about it.
Ya its like alot of them think "The grass might be greener on the other side of the fence"
Dumb broads and if it comes to divorce they get half of our money alot of the time even when they screwed around :rolleyes: kids too. Seen it so many times it makes my head spin. |
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| bluciv93 |
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Originally posted by dance_of_curse
she cheated on me...fucking hell....meh its done and done...trust issues suck when your 17:p but w/e....thats what booze is for...:beer:
i agree :beer: |
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| dance_of_curse |
| BUMP FOR OLD THREAD eh....holy eff...i love cars now..better then women and vices!...woo go cressi |
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| the_fornicator |
been cheated on, but I'll personally never cheat on someone.
I've had lots of opportunities, but I don't think I could live with myself if I did. |
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