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Do you support the Female double standard? - Click HERE for Original Thread

REFLUX
Female double standard in regards to sexual purity:

Men can do as they wish, women got to stay "pure."


Do you agree or disagree with that?

tegGSR
i dunno i would agree in some cases? i think that its just how guys see girls most guys wouldnt want to be with a girl whos been around the block IMO.....but girls cant tell if a guys "pure"...guys can


no..i'm not sexist thats just the way it is...

= i dont agree with it but it does effect decision making:blink:


if that makes any sense.

REFLUX
I can see where you're coming from but I think women can probably tell which guy has been "around the block" too.

Namely whether or not he knows what he's doing.

tegGSR
i would be interested to hear the females on the board's view on this one...whether they know etc lol

Billy
quote:
Originally posted by tegGSR
i dunno i would agree in some cases? i think that its just how guys see girls most guys wouldnt want to be with a girl whos been around the block IMO.....

no..i'm not sexist thats just the way it is...

= i dont agree with it but it does effect decision making:blink:


if that makes any sense.



I totally agree on these points with you.

halfer
second that

Inzane
quote:
Originally posted by tegGSR
i think that its just how guys see girls most guys wouldnt want to be with a girl whos been around the block IMO.


I'm not sure I understand why one's ability to tell makes a difference. The double standard is guys THINK its ok for them to sleep around as much as they want, but not so for whatever girl they are with. It doesn't get much more *double standard* than that.

Guys in general kinda do their own kind a disservice by degrading and rediculing promiscous (sp) woman and the whole stereotype with that. How many times do you think you may have actually seen more action if it were not for girls reluctant to reveal the fact that they were interested in sex out of fear of "the label"?

oldraven
I don't think guys or girls should be whoring it. Sex gets far too overused by both sides these days (says the geriatric).

Fucking is for the undesirables. Makin love is what it's all about. :thumbup:

Just as much as I think girls need to keep their legs closed, guys have got to stop sticking their dicks in everything that moves.

RacerGirl
as a girl, i hate that double standard. why is it that when a guy is a whore, he gets complimented, or nobody says anything; but when a woman sleeps with as many, or less, she is talked about, and called whore, slut, etc?
I am guessing it is from the generations past when the wife was to be a virgin until she was married, and the only reason to have sex was for children.

as for this comment: "most guys wouldnt want to be with a girl whos been around the block IMO. "

Girl's don't want guys like that either. to answer your comment terry, Yes, we know when a guy has been around. Girls talk a lot more than guys about that kind of thing. We know all about the double standard. Some girls don't care though, if the guy is "nice", or whatever.
I don't think there should be a double standard, but it will never change unless the women start speaking up, and dating more like men in that regards.

REFLUX
Thanks for confirming my point Crystal :)

It's a shame that there is a double standard, IMO if you expect your guy/girl to be "pure" then you better as hell be "pure" too.

Otherwise it's just hypocritical.




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