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| Is it just me or do u guys attract those blonde hair nice body blue eyed money grabbing "omg ur car is so pretty" airhead girls? I mean the ones where the deepest thought they have is what shoes to wear with what outfit? i need somthin else here guys i mean i dont mind it sometimes but u get tired of talking to someone with the IQ of a brick wall. I want a smart girl one who doesnt know the name of every guy in N SYNC or who favorite show isnt clueless or legally blonde!!!. And i am tired of white girls i mean lately i have been seeing some pretty fine asain girls and man they are hott. seriously i need help |
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| PraxRX7 |
I haven't seemed to be able to attract any girls for years...
I think thats because I never go out to clubs...oh well...
Clubs = 95% blonde bimbos
No Clubs = Single SOB |
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| REFLUX |
it just depends on where you meet the women
if you go to clubs, be prepared to find 95% of them to be bimbos
you want smart sexy women?? GO TO UNIVERSITY
hell, go to GMCC
it's like a 16:1 ratio of females:males there |
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| HKSpowers |
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Originally posted by REFLUX@May 5 2003, 06:57 AM
it just depends on where you meet the women
if you go to clubs, be prepared to find 95% of them to be bimbos
you want smart sexy women?? GO TO UNIVERSITY
hell, go to GMCC
it's like a 16:1 ratio of females:males there
Terry is that why I never see you at the clubs?
Or wait wasent there one time I saw you on the stage at the Joint dancing with a cowbody hat on waving a bottle of champaine, yelling whos your daddy?
HAHA just kidding :P |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
Devin sounds like you just need to look elsewhere. The woman I seem to be attracting nowadays are 3-5 yrs. older recently divorced or have a kid, so I'm not in any better of a boat ;)
Like Terry said there's universities but there's also book stores and coffee shops which is how I meet most woman, it may sound lame but typically they are the more intelligent.
As far as asian galz go GOOD LUCK, many of the traditional families don't let their daughters date anything other then oriental men, but the boys are allowed to. Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. :bigthumbup: |
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| REFLUX |
Brandon: STFU!!! :lol:
Matt: Hardcore traditional families want their daughters to date within their race & they can't be heatbags either. Got to have manners, respect for those people older than them, show signs of a bright future & a stable family/personality as well.
EDIT: & that is speaking from MY perspective as a SON of traditional Chinese parents |
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| PraxRX7 |
I met a waitress at BP's that was going to university to become a lawyer...
Damn I should have asked her out...I don't think she could have been anymore blatent about wanting me to, she did everything aside from sit down and eat with us...she stood there talking with me most of the meal lol
Damn sometimes I kick myself for not taking opportunities like that... |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
| maybe she just wanted a good tip :P |
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| PraxRX7 |
| maybe she wanted MY tip :bigthumbup: |
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| KimFidler |
I have to agree with everyone in this thread. Club girls are sluts and if that's what you need, that's what they're there for.
If you want good girls - get some balls, go to a bookstore, library, etc. and just walk up to a girl and start talking. Either she'll get creeped out or she'll be intrigued on why you're there and why you're so forward.
I met my gf at work and while it's going good - I wouldn't recommend it. If things don't work out, I can honestly say this will be my last relationship associated with my job. |
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| Mekanik22 |
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Originally posted by PraxRX7@May 5 2003, 10:08 PM
I met a waitress at BP's that was going to university to become a lawyer...
Damn I should have asked her out...I don't think she could have been anymore blatent about wanting me to, she did everything aside from sit down and eat with us...she stood there talking with me most of the meal lol
Damn sometimes I kick myself for not taking opportunities like that...
Go back to that BP's and ask her out. Maybe she'll be working when you go.. :dunno: |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by PraxRX7@May 6 2003, 05:08 AM
I met a waitress at BP's that was going to university to become a lawyer...
Damn I should have asked her out...I don't think she could have been anymore blatent about wanting me to, she did everything aside from sit down and eat with us...she stood there talking with me most of the meal lol
Damn sometimes I kick myself for not taking opportunities like that...
yup, go back there and ask her out! ....and let us know how it goes! :P
btw, we've all done that (not taking opportunities)...so dont feel so bad :grouphug: |
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| midnite |
| seeing someone you work with is not a good idea... been there, won't do it again. |
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| newtuner |
| I agree don't date at work, I went one step farther we moved in together. :thumbsdown: I would not sujest it not only do yo usee her at work you have to put up with her at home. If yo uhave a day off you still have to go pick her up and stuff or take her there. I hated work enough when I had to be there let alone when I didn't. It lasted a year and a half but I think it would have lasted longer and smoother ride if we didn't live together. |
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| high school |
ya mixing work and dating is bad, but didnt he say he only was there eating? i dont think he works there?
but anyways, ya ud get sick of eachother pretty quick. Itd be like hiring your wife to be your assistant or something. You couldnt get mad at them for screwing up cuz ud end up sleeping on the couch or something. Itd be brutal. |
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| bigboom |
haha quit complaining!
i wouldnt be complaining if i was attracting any kind of girl |
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| -]TooL[- |
| That suks man, i hate those chics. I need a girl with some brains aswell. someone that can challenge me to stay on my feet and think quick. i met my current g/f at her work, kinda different place but it works. best of luck to ya buddy! :fingersx: |
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| POX |
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Originally posted by SlowAzzPorsche911T
Devin sounds like you just need to look elsewhere. The
As far as asian galz go GOOD LUCK, many of the traditional families don't let their daughters date anything other then oriental men, but the boys are allowed to. Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. :bigthumbup:
just cause there dady doesnt want them dateing white doesnt mean that they wont :bigthumbup: |
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| Mekanik22 |
At least be greatful your not attracting thunder thighs like her:
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| Jockette |
i need a blondie blue eyed girl to talk up my car. that would be cool.
as for the comment about a girl who knows every name of a boy band, meh...i'm not saying I do, obviously i know the infamous J.Timberlake but other than that, I have no idea.
It might be rare, who knows, but a girl can balance out her girlie side vs her not-so-girlie side. The ladies I know that are car enthusiasts, they seem like they have a good head on their shoulders. The other day, I was watched From Justin To Kelly like 3 times that day [for those who don't know what that is, it's a modern musical that the 1st american idol and runner up made...supposively the worse movie of the year] and the next day, CivicEvolutions called last minute tech day, and I got under the car no problem, and got my hair and hands dirty.
So I've been told that I can balance our my girlie vs car side pretty good. If you have really talked to me, I *KNOW* I sound like a total ditz, and probably wouldn't of thought that I knew where the dipstick was.
As for the traditional asian girls ...I've only heard of the rare one or two cases where it was pretty strict [POX being one of them] but I don't think it's the majority case.....I'm chinese but I'm catholic so I grew up in the white community. My parents don't mind that I bring home a gwai-lo...just as long as he's catholic, they don't care =) brown, white, black, blackanese...whatever. |
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| SHIFT_AT_9000_RPMS |
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Originally posted by Mekanik22
At least be greatful your not attracting thunder thighs like her:
That's just mean dude.
She's bed ridden and obviously suffering from a sickness. |
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| dharmaboy |
the real killer is when you are single, you get almost no girls looking at you or even wanting to be around you.
after i got a girl, i had chicks flirting with me and all that, just falling head first into my lap.
cruel cruel fate.....though my girl is pretty smoking and she is chinese. but she dont like hockey or cars......can't win 'em all i guess. :bigthumbup: |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
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Originally posted by dharmaboy
the real killer is when you are single, you get almost no girls looking at you or even wanting to be around you.
after i got a girl, i had chicks flirting with me and all that, just falling head first into my lap.
cruel cruel fate.....though my girl is pretty smoking and she is chinese. but she dont like hockey or cars......can't win 'em all i guess. :bigthumbup:
The reason why that is is because girls can sense when you're ah, "searching for the flesh" so to speak.
Once people get into a relationship, you may not know it, but you will actually appear different to others... In terms of how you carry yourself, level of confidence, level of focus, and overall horniness.
Less "needy" as it were.
Most Girls have that inherent radar that can detect whether you are out for her heart, or out for her panties.
When you have a girlfriend, you're not really looking for ah, "anything" because you already either "have it" or are "getting it", so you are more calm, collected, confident, and easy going.
When you are not "getting it", you can be either irritable, nervous, and an overall horndog.
Now I'm not saying this applies to everyone, but everyone shows a certain level of each, just sit back and observe for abit, you'll see :)
Most girls (I hate to admit) are master observers, which is why they can read guys so well, because the Horndogs are easy to spot.
As for the "I attract only one type of girl" thing, take a good hard look at where you are meeting and looking for these girls.
If you're looking for a Prize bull in a field of dumb cows, you're going to come away with a dumb cow, no matter what you believe. |
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| Scintillater |
| ^ wow....words of wisdom |
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| GTS Jeff |
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Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG
The reason why that is is because girls can sense when you're ah, "searching for the flesh" so to speak.
Once people get into a relationship, you may not know it, but you will actually appear different to others... In terms of how you carry yourself, level of confidence, level of focus, and overall horniness.
Less "needy" as it were.
Most Girls have that inherent radar that can detect whether you are out for her heart, or out for her panties.
When you have a girlfriend, you're not really looking for ah, "anything" because you already either "have it" or are "getting it", so you are more calm, collected, confident, and easy going.
When you are not "getting it", you can be either irritable, nervous, and an overall horndog.
Now I'm not saying this applies to everyone, but everyone shows a certain level of each, just sit back and observe for abit, you'll see :)
Most girls (I hate to admit) are master observers, which is why they can read guys so well, because the Horndogs are easy to spot.
As for the "I attract only one type of girl" thing, take a good hard look at where you are meeting and looking for these girls.
If you're looking for a Prize bull in a field of dumb cows, you're going to come away with a dumb cow, no matter what you believe.
so basically, girls dont liek desperate guys is what ure saying. well nobody likes desperate ppl - this isnt a gender biased issue.
girls dont like desperate guys,
guys dont like desperate girls,
guys dont like desperate guys,
girls dont like desperate girls.
its human nature to be attracted to confidence and not attracted to insecurity. it has to do with the contagiousness of these qualities. |
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| GTS Jeff |
| one other thing i wanted to add is that if a person needs to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves...well that is just weak. |
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