| Perilous_Enterprises |
I've been single for far too long, and everytime I think I'm getting close to someone they bail on me.
I really wish I didn't have such bad luck with relationships. :(
Oh well, I'm done with my complaining. If anyone knows any cute single girls (aged 22-27 orso), be sure to post their #.. ;) (and put in a good word for me... ;) )
Bob |
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| Almost |
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Originally posted by Perilous_Enterprises@May 13 2003, 03:58 AM
I've been single for far too long, and everytime I think I'm getting close to someone they bail on me.
That's why the girls gave me the nickname of Almost, things seem to be going well and them something just goes screwy through no fault of my own.
The name is kinda sticking cause it fits so well with everything else in my life as well, it's actually funny as hell when people stop to think about it.
I say work with it... |
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| rallyracer |
| Hey man don't be stressing.... i'm sure some nice girl will come along in time... good things come to those who wait.... happy hunting! |
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| REFLUX |
It could just be the girls you get close to
try meeting people from different crowds/places
if you notice that you move too quickly, move a bit slower
main thing is you should be comfortable with yourself & the person you are
girls like confidence ;)
& i'm with rallyracer, one will come along :) |
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| s2oooR |
maybe it could be something else? are u dressing funny? do u work out?.....are u too pushy once u get close to scooping her up?
Got rollerblades? :D
or u could just do what i did....never really got all that many girls talking to me or wanting me to ask them to go out....but let me tell ya,,,,buy a sportscar and it'll change all that :P .....its worth teh investment :P .....within a week, Ive talked to more girls than I have all of highschool! hahahaha....thats an exaggeration but u know what im saying :bigthumbup: ....btw, im still with the same one that I met within a week of the getting the car B) ......sometimes it takes something "materially shallow" to get the girl to see who u really are :P .......im not saying that for the girl im with because we didnt go out officially till 6-7months after we met....but for some girls, thats what it takes :boink: |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
Well, I thought my car was sporty enough.. :P
If I move to fast, then I dont' notice.. which of course would be my fault.. But still, i'm just nice to ppl, as nice as I can be. And it seems that me being nice is my folley..
Thats how I see it at least..
Thanx for the tips tho guy's, I'll continue to wait, I'm just giving up on wishing.. ;)
Bob |
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| PraxRX7 |
meh I haven't had a GF since I was 15, it sucks, but there are no girls out there for me at this time...
If I even meet a girl I always become their "friend" and end up becoming the guy they whine and cry to when they get a BF that beats them up and treats them like crap...
Finnally I had enough and told my female friends that were like that to bugger off because I had heard enough of their problems when there is a nice guy (me) standing right in front of them...
I hate being the nice guy. |
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| Drag-On |
| See this is what you do, i mean u got the nice guy problem hell i had the same thing once the girls always know your gonna be there whenever they need you cuz your a nice guy so they go shoppin for other dudes cuz hey they always got you for back-up right? Change that, when they call say your goin out on a date hell even if your goin out with buddies, when they call crying (as hard as this may be) tell then that it seems like they only need you when nobody else needs them and that u arnt gonna play like that. See girls (most) like the bad guy, face it most girls like being treated like crap and then go whine about it to there nice guy friends. Just pretend your not the nice guy they will realize what they lost and come beggin for ya. :bow: As for not gettin girls i find when i was lookin i got less and when i wasnt looking i couldnt keep em away thats just how it goes. Always have the upper hand. |
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| PraxRX7 |
Meh...I haven't been looking...
Hell I don't think I have even talked to an available girl in over 6 months. |
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| Loose |
Too funny.. My girlfriend said that when we were first dating she thought I was a player cherry poppin a-hole kinda guy. Did she chase me? Yeah. Why? I have no idea. Do my girl friends who know I'm a nice guy go after me? No.
My advise for getting a girl is go shopping at the high schools, they love older guys with cars!!! :P
Seriously:
- Never tell all or show all sides of yourself. They want a challenge, want to try to pry you open and figure you out.
- Pretend you have lots of girlfriends. If they think your taken, they will want you even more. Don't ask me why... that's the way lots are.
- Be confident in everything you do.
- Be unique. Do something that no other guys do.
- Be trophy. Girls want a guy that they can show off to friends and family.
- Never appear desperate.
and finally....
DON'T POST VIDEOS ON THE INTERNET OF YOURSELF HAVING A LIGHTSABER DUEL!!! :P
Any interest in Star Wars, Star Trek, or Dungeons and Dragons is a recipe for instant COCKBLOCKAGE!!!
(disclaimer: I don't know what the f*ck I'm talking about) |
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| PraxRX7 |
meh, I know 3 friends of mine with kids right now, cockblockage might be a good thing for a while longer.
Reminds me of the song "I'm a Loser baby!" :wacko:
Meh I am young and havin fun! |
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| Drag-On |
| loose knows what he is talkin bout |
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| SeventhKevin |
Hey Prax, is this bob's thread or yours?? j/k
dude, you got the car, start going to the gym, do things for you, everything falls into place after that.. :) |
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| PraxRX7 |
there is a reason the age old saying says:
"Nice guys finish last" |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
Wow.. :) thanx for all the advice.. ;) (this board's so good for that, you guys rock.. :) )
I don't like the whole, 'Be a trophy' bit tho.. its logical, but it seems so material, and well.. wrong to me..
I suppose my standards may be a bit too high here, but why can't the chix just see me for who I am?? Why do I have to do something to impress them??
All the same, no sooner did I post my second post on this thread, I kinda secured a little somethin with a really nice girl.. :) We're not an item, but we're probly gonna hook up this weekend.. :) So hey, I guess my complaining went heard.. ;) hehe
I'll be sure to keep you all informed about how it goes.. ;)
Thanx again guys.. ;)
Bob |
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| PraxRX7 |
have fun!
as for me I am going to drive into the sunset -_- |
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| Loose |
I know some girls are reading this..
Tell the guys some secrets...
ps.. I'm sticking to what I said above for now. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Be cool, girls can smell desperation on a guy at 100 paces.
Desperation also is known as "Please save me from my pathetic single status and sleep with me"
Once you stop "needing it" women will find you so much more approchable because they will feel safer and feel that you want to "get with her" not just any girl.
You need to be confident, but not cocky, witty, but not a comedian, interested, but not overly eager.
A good woman will recognize this, bad ones... well, et's not worry about the bad ones :) |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
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Originally posted by BlueTurboEGG@May 15 2003, 06:42 AM
Be cool, girls can smell desperation on a guy at 100 paces.
Desperation also is known as "Please save me from my pathetic single status and sleep with me"
Once you stop "needing it" women will find you so much more approchable because they will feel safer and feel that you want to "get with her" not just any girl.
You need to be confident, but not cocky, witty, but not a comedian, interested, but not overly eager.
A good woman will recognize this, bad ones... well, et's not worry about the bad ones :)
lol :)
Yeah, I got over the needing it part a while ago.. ;) And the desperation is minimal; like I say it's been two years, after a while you just get used to celebacy.. :)
I'm just lookin for a friend, everything after that will happen as it will.. and if thats desperation, then there's a problem with this world.. ;)
Bob |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
| hey bob I'll tell you something I learned bout a week ago when I had time to think... girls aren't worth stressing over. There are FAR more important things in life and if something doesn't work out with a gal take it in stride, experience is experience so I say enjoy the summer and quit worrying about girls! :D |
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| poweredBYhonda_girl |
| best of luck to you perilous....i hope you find what you are looking for.... :P :D :rolleyes: |
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| s2oooR |
| ya, strap on the blades and go nuts :P |
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| Sil-E Gurl |
:unsure: Hmmmm... oh, where to start? I haven't been on the boards once this week cause of working 18 hour days and i go on tonite only to find a nasty Bitchslapping from some insecure gurl to one she probably doesn't even know going on in the "post a hottie" thread, and then I check this one out to find you guys so down and depressed about the :angry: "evil" women! LoL... just joking! I actually thought that some of your insights were ingenious and i am very impressed some of you figured some of us girls out! As for the theory of "drive a hot car" it's half right... (i'm giving away some trade secrets here) :slap: 2 reasons, no, wait!... 3 reasons a chick digs a guy with a nice ricer... #1. Because Speed turns us on.
#2. Because it shows us that the particular guy who owns the ride probably has a good work ethic and isn't afraid to work (lets face it boys, women are always naturally and instinctively looking for a provider for her offspring) scary :crying: (check out the condom ad in the "RU Bored 2" thread... LMAO!
and last and hopefully least :unsure: , chicks want to make sure the guys got good taste (an ego reflecting upon ourselves) and has the Bling to remember to get us a b-day present or sumtin! Kay? It's always way more complicated than it seems with women! Mind you, these are just my observations about my own sisters here, as a chick, this may not be true of every woman... I think that the comment about not being an open book is true too! We do need a challenge and like to feel smart when we "figure you out"! There are some decent ladies out there, just DO NOT SELL OUT! and also, just be yourself and be honest and we will see that and if it's meant to be, we'll be turned on by that! Oh, and being funny (when appropriate) is always good! :wub: |
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| s2oooR |
what do ya know, I was right all along.....its all about the "hot car theory" :bigthumbup:
....i guess when the gf says jokingly, "its all about the car that hooked me in"....she really WASNT kidding! hahaha..... Im calling her on it :P
thanks Sil-E :D
btw, everything else u said was so true! Wish u were on here earlier so i woudlnt have had to figure all that stuff out myself! :angry:
got anymore helpful insights? |
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| Miss Nikki Sixx |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@May 17 2003, 12:58 AM
what do ya know, I was right all along.....its all about the "hot car theory"
No, as a matter of fact, it's not. |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by Miss Nikki Sixx@May 18 2003, 04:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@May 17 2003, 12:58 AM
what do ya know, I was right all along.....its all about the "hot car theory"
No, as a matter of fact, it's not.
well, im hoping most girls would want somethign more than just a hot car...... |
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| Miss Nikki Sixx |
| yeah, well I'm moreso refering to what a girl initially looks at/is attracted to |
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| s2oooR |
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nikki Sixx@May 18 2003, 05:56 PM
yeah, well I'm moreso refering to what a girl initially looks at/is attracted to
and what might that be? |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@May 18 2003, 03:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nikki Sixx@May 18 2003, 05:56 PM
yeah, well I'm moreso refering to what a girl initially looks at/is attracted to
and what might that be?
yeah spill the beans...
Anyhoo to update:
I thought I might have found a girl, but as per the usual, she just stopped phonning me.. I called her once and dropped an email, but no respone.. :( I give up once again.
Dagnammit I say!
EVERYTIME!!! I can't escape it, I'm cursed...
Are there anyother girls out there who'd like to toy with my heart?? Go ahead, you can only break a heart so many times before it dies... lets see how many times it takes for mine...
Bob |
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| Loose |
quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nikki Sixx@May 17 2003, 09:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by s2oooR@May 17 2003, 12:58 AM
what do ya know, I was right all along.....its all about the "hot car theory"
No, as a matter of fact, it's not.
agreed... I picked up 2 girls this weekend driving my new Buick Regal!
Don't tell me it was the car!
J/K
Some girls dig cars, most do not IMO. |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
Here's my $.02
play hard to get - don't seem overly interested, if she thinks that you have better things/women to do she probably will try harder to get with you
be confident - if you can be happy on your own, secure in the fact that you are single, women will see this and know that you don't need them to live which can signal to them that you are a good catch
take care of yourself - I'm not saying go to the gym and become a juice monkey, but have some pride, simple things like doing your hair and having showers, if you don't take care of yourself women will see that and realize that you won't take care of them as well
read - having some brains won't hurt, being able to hold a decent conversation about something other than car parts is a good thing (especially if you ever meet her parents)
I'm sure that there are some things that I am missing but I feel those things are a good start.
Most imprtant thing though is BE YOURSELF!!!!! |
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| Loose |
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Originally posted by Loose@May 26 2003, 02:38 PM
Some girls dig cars, most do not IMO.
I take back what I said... sort of.
Most chicks don't dig cars, but there are enough that do. If you have the car, you shouldn't have problems. Now go get that S2000 or 350Z :P |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by Loose@May 27 2003, 12:54 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Loose@May 26 2003, 02:38 PM
Some girls dig cars, most do not IMO.
I take back what I said... sort of.
Most chicks don't dig cars, but there are enough that do. If you have the car, you shouldn't have problems. Now go get that S2000 or 350Z :P
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| typesly |
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Originally posted by Perilous_Enterprises@May 15 2003, 05:11 PM
like I say it's been two years, after a while you just get used to celebacy.. :)
2 years??! u should check to see it still works okay :D
this quote from your other thread may or maynot have something to do with you having a hrd time with the ladies:
"The car gets both the attention, and the money... Woman is second.. well third; next to the paintball gun..." lol |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by typesly@May 27 2003, 11:40 AM
this quote from your other thread may or may not have something to do with you having a hard time with the ladies:
"The car gets both the attention, and the money... Woman is second.. well third; next to the paintball gun..." lol
I notice that most guys who have that kind of mentality (#1 is car, then money, then etc) are single & have difficult times finding women
Women don't want to be with some self-centered guy who cares more about his posessions than the person he is with & supposedly loves/is crazy about |
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| s2oooR |
what about me, Reflux? ....Blades, gf, car, money? lol
3 and 4 might be interchangeable, to tell u the truth :P
so can 1 and 2, depending if we're fighting or not ...hahaha :unsure: :blink: B) |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
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Originally posted by REFLUX@May 27 2003, 01:46 PM
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Originally posted by typesly@May 27 2003, 11:40 AM
this quote from your other thread may or may not have something to do with you having a hard time with the ladies:
"The car gets both the attention, and the money... Woman is second.. well third; next to the paintball gun..." lol
I notice that most guys who have that kind of mentality (#1 is car, then money, then etc) are single & have difficult times finding women
Women don't want to be with some self-centered guy who cares more about his posessions than the person he is with & supposedly loves/is crazy about
K, in my eye's I'm not all that self centered, but I could be wrong about myself..
When I actually have a g/f I spend time with her, and buy her stuff, and will put off the new set of coilovers for another 2 weeks when it's her b-day...
however, I still hold true to 'my car gets the attention' simply because after all the years I've been driving vs. all the years of relationships, my car's have let me down far less frequently than my g/f's... so it's out of habit, not neccessity.. if that makes any sence.. ;)
Show me the right girl, and she'll be the first on my list, I'd just have to get to know her well before I set my car aside totally...
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