| inglewood |
| It's taken me a few weeks to figure this out, but I've come to realize that girls always want the incessant jerks that treat them like objects, and end up dumping them after taking advantage of them. However, the nice guy always end up being the ones left heartbroken in a relationship. They treat the woman they love like the most precious thing in their life, and get hurt in the end. Why do you think this is? |
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| HKSpowers |
| Oieee tell me about it :( funny thing is most people on this bored will probably claim to being the nice guy :unsure: |
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| Benny |
Its brutal man, but it goes hand in hand with "What do Women want"
That is something that changes with everyone but often have a similar value.
Why does it take some girls till they are like 25, and severly mistrusting of any guy because all their relatonships have been horrific, to figure out that the bad boy image just isn't practical? |
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| HKSpowers |
You know it's all those A$$hole ex's of these girl that ruin it for the nice ones like us. What i'm saying is that when you meet chicks they ussually tell you that their very over protective or hard to gain trust with becuase of prior ex's ruining treating them like shiet!
But anyways dosent matter if you got game, Terry you know a thing or two about game now dont you? :bigthumbup: |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
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when you meet chicks they ussually tell you that their very over protective or hard to gain trust with becuase of prior ex's ruining treating them like shiet!
I hate that BS line, the way I see it, is it shouldn't really matter about said chicks ex, if I have not done anyhting that should give her a reason not to trust me then I think she should trust me. I personally believe in giving a person the benifit of the doublt, if a person that I am dating, which means I have to trust at least a little to even get that far, doesn't do anything to break my trust then I will trust them (maybe not with my car jk), and I expect the same from them.
If my GF can't trust me then I won't stay I hate it when be won't trust me even though I have done nothing wrong and given them no reason not to.
Just my $.02 |
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| s2oooR |
ok i'll admit, im a bad boy...... :lol:
i just give'm a look like this :angry: and they're like :bow:
when will u guys learn to treat them like shiet....they wont let it on but they really like that sorta stuff ;) :blink:
I was asking the same question as u before...and i found out u just gotta be like the guy she wants to be with..... a guy that treats her bad...REALLLL BADDD.... :lol: :cuddle: :boink: |
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| SplineZ |
its been my experiance that girls love power. "Nice Guys" tend to be shy, and do not exude a sense "power" like assholes do. :) Beit over them or other people, being a dick makes you appear that you have power, which I guess is more desireable than a guy that will treat them like the sun.
Myself I have wondered about keeping this "Nice Guy" thing, its been nothing but a bumpy road sofar.. :unsure:
I am far from an expert at this subject tho :)
JZ |
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| s2oooR |
| told ya, be an dick....they like that better :P |
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| Almost |
try being the asshole for a while, it works great (you feel dirty doing it, but it's nice to see how the other half lives for a change)
The more you treat her like dirt, the more she'll do to please you, you practically have to beat them to get them off of you (But don't beat them, cause that's wrong and then they'll never leave you "cause deep down you're a good guy")
Try looking at it from the other side as well, the nicer you are to her, the meaner she'll be to you....guys go for bithces as much as women go for assholes....
no ones at fault, everyone gets screwed over. |
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| SplineZ |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@May 21 2003, 07:32 PM
told ya, be an dick....they like that better :P
I should hope so, or they woudlnt be going for guys in the first place :P :D
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| Benny |
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Originally posted by Almost@May 21 2003, 08:03 PM
try being the asshole for a while, it works great (you feel dirty doing it, but it's nice to see how the other half lives for a change)
The more you treat her like dirt, the more she'll do to please you, you practically have to beat them to get them off of you (But don't beat them, cause that's wrong and then they'll never leave you "cause deep down you're a good guy")
Try looking at it from the other side as well, the nicer you are to her, the meaner she'll be to you....guys go for bithces as much as women go for assholes....
no ones at fault, everyone gets screwed over.
I wholeheartedly disagree...why should you have to change who you are and what is special about yourself just to please someone...Find someone who appreciates you for who you are, otherwise the relationship will be nowhere cause you will never have been yourself...not the way to live IMO.
My morals and values inhibit me to treat a girl like trash, I cant do it, I also cannot be the asshole bad ass BF or person for that matter. Goes against everything I believe in and everything that I was taught in my upbringing. Treat others how you would like to be treated.
If that leaves me less desirable, then there ya go, but I would rather know that I have lived my life for who I am, and not what societys cloak and mass attempt to ensue. |
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| scooby_dooby |
it's all about choosing wehn to be nice and when to be an ass. If you're too nice they'll take you for granted, that's human nature. If you're lucky enlough to find the 1% of girls that aren't this way that's the best.
But ya, be an ass most of the time, every once in a while treat em right, that's the best way to handle most girls. |
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| Almost |
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Originally posted by Benny@May 21 2003, 09:07 PM
I wholeheartedly disagree...why should you have to change who you are and what is special about yourself just to please someone...Find someone who appreciates you for who you are, otherwise the relationship will be nowhere cause you will never have been yourself...not the way to live IMO.
My morals and values inhibit me to treat a girl like trash, I cant do it, I also cannot be the asshole bad ass BF or person for that matter. Goes against everything I believe in and everything that I was taught in my upbringing. Treat others how you would like to be treated.
If that leaves me less desirable, then there ya go, but I would rather know that I have lived my life for who I am, and not what societys cloak and mass attempt to ensue.
I didn't say you should change to find someone........
I said try being the ass for once, every guy deserves to have the experience of getting anything they want from a girl at least once in their lives... think of it like living in a porn movie for a week or two.
relationship/long term wise.....be yourself and you'll find a match....don't sweat it |
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| theStartingLine |
quote:
Originally posted by Benny@May 21 2003, 09:07 PM
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Originally posted by Almost@May 21 2003, 08:03 PM
try being the asshole for a while, it works great (you feel dirty doing it, but it's nice to see how the other half lives for a change)
The more you treat her like dirt, the more she'll do to please you, you practically have to beat them to get them off of you (But don't beat them, cause that's wrong and then they'll never leave you "cause deep down you're a good guy")
Try looking at it from the other side as well, the nicer you are to her, the meaner she'll be to you....guys go for bithces as much as women go for assholes....
no ones at fault, everyone gets screwed over.
I wholeheartedly disagree...why should you have to change who you are and what is special about yourself just to please someone...Find someone who appreciates you for who you are, otherwise the relationship will be nowhere cause you will never have been yourself...not the way to live IMO.
My morals and values inhibit me to treat a girl like trash, I cant do it, I also cannot be the asshole bad ass BF or person for that matter. Goes against everything I believe in and everything that I was taught in my upbringing. Treat others how you would like to be treated.
If that leaves me less desirable, then there ya go, but I would rather know that I have lived my life for who I am, and not what societys cloak and mass attempt to ensue.
:bigthumbup:
I agree Benny. |
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| HKSpowers |
You know this is what I tend to use as a rule of thumb treat your wemen like your car, this also tells you what sort of person you are.
A person that neglects to maintain his vehicle keeping it dirty and avoiding maintance cost over lengthly periods of time because of high costs or lazyness will in fact be cheap to his woman and likely end up treating her like his car, this is not to say everyone is like this but, next time pay attention to these details and you'll often find jerks tend to run along these pathes.
Oh and on another note, from past experience girls(generally) love a guy that has a control over them but not abusing it as well. Of course someone has to be able to put their foot down and set some rules other wise you'd walk over each other. One will always give more and the other will take; dont abuse it either, this is where you mentally think less of her hence all the abusive relationships and high divorce rates.
All lot of wife beaters really do love their wives and really it only esculated to the abusiveness only after long periods of marriage where the husband relizes his control over her.
Treat her fairly but be firm and direct but remember she's your friend not your enemy!
$.02 did you want change? |
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| s2oooR |
well im lucky i found a girl that doesnt mind my cheapo one liners and stuff like that so im totally myself around her..... :bigthumbup:
butttt, before that.......few and far between baby! I still say, for a good time, be an asshole.... :bigthumbup: if u wanna keep her using "who u are"....lets just hope she stays with u :P |
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| typesly |
| nice guys finish last.... period. |
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| HKSpowers |
| If nice guys finnish last I would way rather be the bad guy going first and doing all those nasty thing's and in the end the nice guy gets to take out my trash BUHHAAAAA |
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| s2oooR |
face it, nice guys get left overs..... :thumbsdown:
i know what? why dont u just pretend to be a bad guy but your really nice inside.....and then when u DO find a girl that u like....be really mean to her so she likes u and then do a 180 and be all nice and stuff......she'll think she's changed u and u know how girls like that.....and then you'll have her forever! :P :bigthumbup: |
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| HKSpowers |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@May 22 2003, 01:46 PM
face it, nice guys get left overs..... :thumbsdown:
i know what? why dont u just pretend to be a bad guy but your really nice inside.....and then when u DO find a girl that u like....be really mean to her so she likes u and then do a 180 and be all nice and stuff......she'll think she's changed u and u know how girls like that.....and then you'll have her forever! :P :bigthumbup:
I think your on to something here!! :bigthumbup: |
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| s2oooR |
it worked for me, it can work for you too! :bigthumbup: Im on step 5 of the 5 step program.....
...mind u, ive been called a jerk by my gf within the past two weeks :P hahahaha.... |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
| don't purposely be an ass if you're not or be nice if you're not.. just be yourself, it's better to have someone love you for who you are then like you for someone you're not |
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| over easy |
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Originally posted by SlowAzzPorsche911T@May 22 2003, 11:37 PM
don't purposely be an ass if you're not or be nice if you're not.. just be yourself, it's better to have someone love you for who you are then like you for someone you're not
Totally you should care if the girl likes you for who you are...not who you are pretending to be. If a girl can't seee you for your true self then why is she even worth it in the first place. as for nice guys finnish last that is only partly true. I know some of my nice freinds that are in awsome relatiopnships because they both treat eachother like kings and queens. so it is kinda like a give give situation. you be nice and the girl will treat you back the same... :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :bow: :bigthumbup: :rolleyes: B) |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
ah hell just try this it is bound to work
click here |
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| Genki |
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Originally posted by over easy@May 23 2003, 07:41 AM
you be nice and the girl will treat you back the same...
haha yea if u are lucky. Some girls will jsut take advantage of u and NOT treat u back the same! :angry: |
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| 83b18b1slow |
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Originally posted by Z3r03rr0r@May 23 2003, 07:06 AM
ah hell just try this it is bound to work
click here
ha-ha
That's a neat one! :bigthumbup: |
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| JdmCrx |
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Originally posted by Benny@May 21 2003, 09:07 PM
I wholeheartedly disagree...why should you have to change who you are and what is special about yourself just to please someone...Find someone who appreciates you for who you are, otherwise the relationship will be nowhere cause you will never have been yourself...not the way to live IMO.
My morals and values inhibit me to treat a girl like trash, I cant do it, I also cannot be the asshole bad ass BF or person for that matter. Goes against everything I believe in and everything that I was taught in my upbringing. Treat others how you would like to be treated.
If that leaves me less desirable, then there ya go, but I would rather know that I have lived my life for who I am, and not what societys cloak and mass attempt to ensue.
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| SplineZ |
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Originally posted by Genki@May 23 2003, 07:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by over easy@May 23 2003, 07:41 AM
you be nice and the girl will treat you back the same...
haha yea if u are lucky. Some girls will jsut take advantage of u and NOT treat u back the same! :angry:
been there, still working on the come back :)
JZ |
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| JdmCrx |
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Originally posted by SplineZ@May 23 2003, 02:00 PM
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Originally posted by Genki@May 23 2003, 07:25 AM
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Originally posted by over easy@May 23 2003, 07:41 AM
you be nice and the girl will treat you back the same...
haha yea if u are lucky. Some girls will jsut take advantage of u and NOT treat u back the same! :angry:
been there, still working on the come back :)
JZ
me 2 man :mellow: |
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| Almost |
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Originally posted by SlowAzzPorsche911T@May 22 2003, 11:37 PM
don't purposely be an ass if you're not or be nice if you're not.. just be yourself, it's better to have someone love you for who you are then like you for someone you're not
yes, but it's also good to have someone blow you for who you're not,
occasionally as well.
On a side note do you think we spend more time analyzing women than they do us... or are we just a special group of losers? |
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| SplineZ |
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Originally posted by Almost@May 23 2003, 08:07 PM
or are we just a special group of losers?
bam, you hit the nail on the head j/k! :D
JZ |
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| Mekanik22 |
I among many of my other freinds will probably just end up marrying our cars :P :lol:
EDIT: and no it won't be my Cavy... :P :rolleyes: |
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| Pro Drag |
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Originally posted by Almost@May 23 2003, 10:07 PM
yes, but it's also good to have someone blow you for who you're not,occasionally as well.
:lol: :bigthumbup: |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
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Originally posted by Almost@May 23 2003, 08:07 PM
On a side note do you think we spend more time analyzing women than they do us... or are we just a special group of losers?
I think you hit the nail on the head :D |
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| MiniMan |
| Anyone else get the acting going on? They tell you how nice you are and how great you treat them, then they go back to a guy who has always treated them like shit (yelled at them, made them cry, not made them feel good about themselves, etc). I'm totally with you on this one Osama and I wish I wasn't. :( |
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| Almost |
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Originally posted by MiniMan@May 25 2003, 12:51 PM
Anyone else get the acting going on? They tell you how nice you are and how great you treat them, then they go back to a guy who has always treated them like shit (yelled at them, made them cry, not made them feel good about themselves, etc). I'm totally with you on this one Osama and I wish I wasn't. :(
Next time she does that, smack her in the face, appologize profusely and promise to never do it again.
Enjoy the sex.
Black eyes are like foreplay. |
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| TheNeonEdge |
HAHAHAHAHA, gotta love this forum sometimes. Its alwyas good for a laugh.
The key to everything is balance. Show her that you like to be bad sometimes and will wisk her away into a corner in the glow in the dark mini golf in west ed and do unthought of things B) . And then go buy her dinner, then, complain to the waiter about how your food isnt done properly and get a free meal. Then go for a romantic walk in the park.
being bad, being good, being an ass, being nice.
You need to have balance. Then she sees how good you are to her, but yet you stand firm in your positions and arnt affraid to put your foot down, but as in doing so she sees what a nice guy you can truly be.
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by TheNeonEdge@May 26 2003, 04:15 AM
HAHAHAHAHA, gotta love this forum sometimes. Its alwyas good for a laugh.
The key to everything is balance. Show her that you like to be bad sometimes and will wisk her away into a corner in the glow in the dark mini golf in west ed and do unthought of things B) . And then go buy her dinner, then, complain to the waiter about how your food isnt done properly and get a free meal. Then go for a romantic walk in the park.
being bad, being good, being an ass, being nice.
You need to have balance. Then she sees how good you are to her, but yet you stand firm in your positions and arnt affraid to put your foot down, but as in doing so she sees what a nice guy you can truly be.
John
interesting....
u must get laid lots :boink: hahaha |
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| polski-13 |
| i think that its true, the assholes always get the girl.....for the night. the nice guy will get her one night, then the next, then the next. its tue that assholes get the girl for a bit, then nice guy will get her forever. |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by polski-13@May 26 2003, 06:26 PM
i think that its true, the assholes always get the girl.....for the night. the nice guy will get her one night, then the next, then the next. its tue that assholes get the girl for a bit, then nice guy will get her forever.
yeah, and get all the diseases from the asshole too :thumbsdown: :lol: |
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| colossus |
| Ever notice how nice guys always end up with single moms and the babies the gal got from the bad guy she was previously? :angry: |
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| ManHunter |
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Originally posted by MiniMan@May 25 2003, 01:51 PM
Anyone else get the acting going on? They tell you how nice you are and how great you treat them, then they go back to a guy who has always treated them like shit (yelled at them, made them cry, not made them feel good about themselves, etc). I'm totally with you on this one Osama and I wish I wasn't. :(
I sooooo know what you mean. Unfortunately for me.
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| ManHunter |
I wonder why we haven't seen any posts from girls yet...
MH |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
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Originally posted by ManHunter@May 30 2003, 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by MiniMan@May 25 2003, 01:51 PM
Anyone else get the acting going on? They tell you how nice you are and how great you treat them, then they go back to a guy who has always treated them like shit (yelled at them, made them cry, not made them feel good about themselves, etc). I'm totally with you on this one Osama and I wish I wasn't. :(
I sooooo know what you mean. Unfortunately for me.
MH
I hate that... :( happens far too often..
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| over easy |
| A girl is like a orange.....on the outside they are tough and like the roughness to open them up... but once you get inside that sweet core then the sweet taste lasts forever...or at least a couple minutes :wub: :bigthumbup: :bow: :D |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by over easy@May 31 2003, 03:57 AM
A girl is like a orange.....on the outside they are tough and like the roughness to open them up... but once you get inside that sweet core then the sweet taste lasts forever...or at least a couple minutes :wub: :bigthumbup: :bow: :D
or until u get to the seeds? lol |
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