| REFLUX |
What happens when, in trying to improve a relationship, one uses up all known options???
When one tries all that one can do??? |
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| RezaREX |
| If only one person is trying for any extended period of time and the other does not come to his/her senses it's obviously not a healthy relationship. |
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| Scintillater |
| depends what you mean by trying. if you've talked to them, they've agreed to try, and things are going nowhere...sometimes it's a sign that things just aren't going to work. but you have to give it time. then evaluate. ask those closest to you to give their best advice...sometimes they see things more clearly than yourself. |
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| colossus |
Reflux the essense of your querie is for one to ask oneself, when they've had enough. You'll know when you've hit rock bottom. Then leaving the relationship will be moot, you'll have had enough.
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| Z3r03rr0r |
| yeah listen to the zen master ^^ |
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| REFLUX |
quote:
Originally posted by colossus@Jun 9 2003, 07:25 PM
Then leaving the relationship will be moot,
what's "moot"? |
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| s2oooR |
| why, whats going on with you two anyways?! Maybe in her mind, she IS trying? :unsure: |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
quote:
Originally posted by REFLUX@Jun 10 2003, 09:02 AM
quote:
Originally posted by colossus@Jun 9 2003, 07:25 PM
Then leaving the relationship will be moot,
what's "moot"?
moot
Law. A hypothetical case argued by law students as an exercise.
An ancient English meeting, especially a representative meeting of the freemen of a shire.
http://dictionary.reference.com/ |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
| The choises are limited.. ask yourself; is it worth pailing out the water, or should the sinking ship be left to rest.... |
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| Perilous_Enterprises |
| Moot: in this case, the relationship is moot when pushed to and beyond it's limits. It's a fight you fight when you're already beaten... |
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| colossus |
moot in the case means... the decision whether or not to leave the relationship will be irrelevant, you'll have left in your mind long ago. The reason you hold on is because you still have some hope and a desire try again. You'll know when it's over, because you'll have had enough of her s**t to put it bluntly. Despair not, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
P.S. what chick could resist a rotary powered sportscar driver. ;) |
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| colossus |
| I like Perilous' definition. Sounds enigmatic. |
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| colossus |
"yeah listen to the zen master ^^ "
That's Mr. Miyagi to you. Daniel-san wax-on, wax-off. This is Arnold from
Happy Days talking.... :ph34r: |
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| TheNeonEdge |
If you know your treating her good, and she know you do too. Then break up with her, and stay friends. But wait a while, and if she really does have intrest in you, she will try to be better and meet your needs more. Also dont just try things to make it better. Discusss what you dislike and like about your relationship with her. Maybe it will bring things out in hte open. But if all that fails, let her go, and if she likes / loves you, im sure she will hint that she wants you back by trying harder.
Me and my girlfriend were off and on for like a year last year, then finally i said ive had enough and that nothing owuld ever happen betweeen us again, and after 4 - 5 months, We got back together because we stayed in god touch and dated other people, and now weve been going steady for almost 8 months and things couldnt be any better.
--ThE EdGe |
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