| Can you TRULY Forgive if you don't Forget? - Click HERE for Original Thread |
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| Can someone fully forgive if they don't forget? |
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| arabian_ryda |
| i don think so. every happens for a reson and whats been done is done. cant change the past rite. |
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| Jord@n |
| I vote yes. People can get over things and forgive people without forgetting. Depends how serious of thing it is to forgive though, obviously somethings are more difficult then others. |
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| EK9Hatch |
Yea this is definitely a tough one. I think that certain things simply can not be forgiven. Thats obviously just my opinion.
Jamie |
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| midnite |
| of course you can |
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| gtaylor |
no.
there are certain things that cannot be forgiven. but there are very few events that are this applies to.
but yea, for some events you cannot be forgiven. |
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| Blackout-spec |
fuck NO!!!
heres a perfect example.
last summer my gf went back home to europe to visit some family and friends for a month. when she came back she was so sure i cheated on here. i told her i didnt and that i would do anything to prove it. anyways she says she will forget about it. so a yr later( now actually) i find out that shes been talking to one of my buddies(that also has a gf) and is trying to hook up with him some night and cheat on me to get back at me! A YR LATER!!!! i caught all the emails and shit on facebook before it happened so they both had some serious explaining to do. |
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| EK9Hatch |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
fuck NO!!!
heres a perfect example.
last summer my gf went back home to europe to visit some family and friends for a month. when she came back she was so sure i cheated on here. i told her i didnt and that i would do anything to prove it. anyways she says she will forget about it. so a yr later( now actually) i find out that shes been talking to one of my buddies(that also has a gf) and is trying to hook up with him some night and cheat on me to get back at me! A YR LATER!!!! i caught all the emails and shit on facebook before it happened so they both had some serious explaining to do.
Slap that bitch and knock buddy out. They are obviously both no good for you.
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| crazyrx7 |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
fuck NO!!!
heres a perfect example.
last summer my gf went back home to europe to visit some family and friends for a month. when she came back she was so sure i cheated on here. i told her i didnt and that i would do anything to prove it. anyways she says she will forget about it. so a yr later( now actually) i find out that shes been talking to one of my buddies(that also has a gf) and is trying to hook up with him some night and cheat on me to get back at me! A YR LATER!!!! i caught all the emails and shit on facebook before it happened so they both had some serious explaining to do.
Tape it and put it on you tube or something. Then kick the shit out of your buddy, fuck his girlfriend, and tell your now "ex" girlfriend that your even and you don't want to see her anymore. Then fuck her mom. That will teach her a lesson.
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| Jockette |
| This is a tough question but having been cheated on twice... I'd say no. If forgiveness is an issue, it's time to re-evaluate things and move the fuck on! |
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| Jord@n |
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Originally posted by crazyrx7
Tape it and put it on you tube or something. Then kick the shit out of your buddy, fuck his girlfriend, and tell your now "ex" girlfriend that your even and you don't want to see her anymore. Then fuck her mom. That will teach her a lesson.
R.K.
Best payback ever. :lol: |
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| Blackout-spec |
trust me, i was beyond pissed off. especially after she tried to play me even after i found out. she told him that i only knew they were talking and didnt meet up. but apparently they met up and he took her for dinner. i told him i hope his gf is more forgiving as me. their will be hell to pay!
moral of the story, you cant forgive!!!! |
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| EDISKRAD EHT |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
trust me, i was beyond pissed off. especially after she tried to play me even after i found out. she told him that i only knew they were talking and didnt meet up. but apparently they met up and he took her for dinner. i told him i hope his gf is more forgiving as me. their will be hell to pay!
moral of the story, you cant forgive!!!!
I hope you're not still with the chick? What she did is still cheating. |
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| Blackout-spec |
yah sorry to say i am still with her.
i told her that she has to prove to me that she is even worth my time. I also told her that if i ever catch her even flirting again that we are over for sure.
the only reason i gave her a 2nd chance was because we have been going out for 3 1/2 yrs and she broke down all crying and shit saying she was stupid and only wanted to do it to get back at me(for w/e i did ...). i really cared about her, but things are back at square 1 and she has to earn my trust and feelings again.
i truly believe she will make things right. hopefully i dont get bent over and fucked again.
to make the deal sweeter, i told her i need something to get her back if she ever fucked me over again. naked pics ftw! haha but to prove im honest, i sealed them in an envelope and had her sign her name under a piece of tape that held the envelope closed. obviously if i remove the tape, the signature comes with it and im busted!
so yah, i forgave her on certain circumstance. |
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| jarago |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
yah sorry to say i am still with her.
i told her that she has to prove to me that she is even worth my time. I also told her that if i ever catch her even flirting again that we are over for sure.
the only reason i gave her a 2nd chance was because we have been going out for 3 1/2 yrs and she broke down all crying and shit saying she was stupid and only wanted to do it to get back at me(for w/e i did ...). i really cared about her, but things are back at square 1 and she has to earn my trust and feelings again.
i truly believe she will make things right. hopefully i dont get bent over and fucked again.
to make the deal sweeter, i told her i need something to get her back if she ever fucked me over again. naked pics ftw! haha but to prove im honest, i sealed them in an envelope and had her sign her name under a piece of tape that held the envelope closed. obviously if i remove the tape, the signature comes with it and im busted!
so yah, i forgave her on certain circumstance.
And if things don't work out as planned those pics end up on the "post a hottie" thread right? |
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| Blackout-spec |
| haha hopefully not. |
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| T-LAV MRV |
forgiveness without forgetting?, no.
mike |
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| tho_chi |
| You can always forgive but somethings are not possible to forget. There is a big difference. |
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| Jojdm |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
fuck NO!!!
heres a perfect example.
last summer my gf went back home to europe to visit some family and friends for a month. when she came back she was so sure i cheated on here. i told her i didnt and that i would do anything to prove it. anyways she says she will forget about it. so a yr later( now actually) i find out that shes been talking to one of my buddies(that also has a gf) and is trying to hook up with him some night and cheat on me to get back at me! A YR LATER!!!! i caught all the emails and shit on facebook before it happened so they both had some serious explaining to do.
if youre not going out with this broad and 1 yr later, she is fair game for your buddy to tag.
If youre still going out with her, she probably cheated on you while in Europe that is why she got on your case so you would be in defense mode trying to prove anything. And now she is back at it again trying to spread eagle for your "buddy"
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| Blackout-spec |
no man, ive been with her 3.5 yrs. im 99.9 % sure she didnt cheat on me in europe. she was deeply in love w/ me.
but all is well and ill get her back if she tries to fuck me over again. |
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| Prudz_lude |
Did i read that correctly? She tried to cheat on you and failed and your still dating her? Sounds like you are pussy whippeddddddd
*WaaaaahhhhHCHHHHHHHH!!!!*
thats the sound of her whip, Oh shit!!! here she comes, hurry hide. |
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| Blackout-spec |
wow i didnt realize you are still 15. funny how i dont miss the high school drama.
i bet 99% of guys are "whipped" a bit, if you call being a gentleman "whipped". trust me, i get back what i put out.
im with her because i believe she will make things right. this is her only chance to prove herself. remember i got pics if she tries to cheat on me. and btw shes a fairly conservative girl, so she will be very pissed to find herself all over the net.
whipped or not, i get ass and hopefully someone who actually cares(time will tell).
when your sitting at home with your right hand, remember, your not whipped, but your not getting any either on a regular basis, if at all :)
i love how this thread has evolved about my gf and I |
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| Prudz_lude |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
wow i didnt realize you are still 15. funny how i dont miss the high school drama.
i bet 99% of guys are "whipped" a bit, if you call being a gentleman "whipped". trust me, i get back what i put out.
im with her because i believe she will make things right. this is her only chance to prove herself. remember i got pics if she tries to cheat on me. and btw shes a fairly conservative girl, so she will be very pissed to find herself all over the net.
whipped or not, i get ass and hopefully someone who actually cares(time will tell).
when your sitting at home with your right hand, remember, your not whipped, but your not getting any either on a regular basis, if at all :)
i love how this thread has evolved about my gf and I
BAWHAHAHAHAHAHA this is the perfect post. Just got laid twice in the last two hours. so i believe you are the one jerking it in the dark while your girlfriend is out jerking some other guy off.
The original post was a joke buddy. You need to cool down. This post is retaliation too your post. High school drama? i didn't even realize you went to the same high school until i read the "what high school did you go to" thread.
I have nothing against you, but it was just a joke. |
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| Jojdm |
Kyle, if I read your post right if she is "conservative" why is she hoing around???
That is tough that you've been with her for 3.5 years, yikes!!!!
I think your just getting lazy, and you don't want to bother looking for some new skin,
Your rationale of as long as I am getting some, its okay??????? cmon man, thats pathetic.....
Kyle, its time to move on and screw her best friend, mark my words she will cheat again. |
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| Prudz_lude |
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Originally posted by Jojdm
Kyle, if I read your post right if she is "conservative" why is she hoing around???
That is tough that you've been with her for 3.5 years, yikes!!!!
I think your just getting lazy, and you don't want to bother looking for some new skin,
Your rationale of as long as I am getting some, its okay??????? cmon man, thats pathetic.....
Kyle, its time to move on and screw her best friend, mark my words she will cheat again.
she didn't cheat on him, but she tried. thats my point, just to clear that up. |
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| Jojdm |
I dont car about your point the post was directed to kyle, so shut the fuck up!
kyle... |
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| Prudz_lude |
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Originally posted by Jojdm
I dont car about your point the post was directed to kyle, so shut the fuck up!
kyle...
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| Jojdm |
you're a clown.... must be fun riding the bus now? ...
LAWL |
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| Blackout-spec |
its just the internet, not letting anything get to me.
predzlude- its all good, ppl say shit on the net that they dont say in person. im sure if we met in person, shit would be different. w/e
Jojdm- haha thanks man, tobad her best friend isnt that hot... oh well.
yah i am probably lazy and just dont want to find something else. im happy and over it now. she told me why she tried to do it, i believe her, i guess im gullible. hopefully it doesnt kick me in the ass down the road. shes fun, i enjoy going out with her and everything, but everyone fucks up. i believe everyone is entitled to a 2nd chance. i have not got the feeling for her i did before she did all this bs, so i told her to earn them back. that way im not hurt if it happens again. like i said before, after 3 1/2 yrs its hard to let go even if they do really fuck up. we have had an awesome relationship and i dont want to throw that away.
i do still trust her and i will forgive. she said she would do anything to make things right, and i told her to prove to me she cares and wants to be with me. No i didnt say i want 10 BJ's a day haha. |
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| Jojdm |
well, Kyle yeah 3.5 years is nothing to take lightly.
I respect where you are coming from,
live and learn.
ps. negotiate push for at least 5 BJs / day??????????? |
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| Prudz_lude |
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Originally posted by Blackout-spec
prudz_lude- its all good, ppl say shit on the net that they dont say in person. im sure if we met in person, shit would be different. w/e
Your right it would be different. I would have said pussy whipped and you would have realized it was a joke. However, anything personal and i would have said the exact stuff i did on the board. Anything i say here i am willing to say in someones face. There are very few exception.
Either way enough of this. Back on topic guys and like jojdm said bargin for those bj's!!!! 5 is a little much still i would make it realistic, a simple two. Five a day could make it raw after a while. After all her neck would get tired and fuck ups would get inevitable. Also i would be scared if her neck got all musclely and ripped from to many bj's hahahha. |
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