| ROMANTIC Gestures - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| RideDomestic |
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| RideDomestic |
| I want to know what nice things you guys do for your girlfriends. Small, thoughtful things like flowers or chocolates. Maybe something elaborate? |
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| someguyincanada |
| giving her a back massage without even telling her, watching chick flicks with her, bringing breakfast in bed. |
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| shortie |
| us chicks love surprises. so things out of the blue work wonders - like flowers or a dinner or a 'date'. I would be iffy on the chocolate though - unless you know exactly the kind she likes. |
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| Jord@n |
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Originally posted by diesekiel
I bang her.
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| euro777 |
jacuzzi suite in banff, also lets me unleash the car on the hiway.
the olds to cochrane calgary bypass has new asphalt=very nice cruizing time. but this isnt small and cheap, but if you have the time and money the busy summer peak holiday season is over and snow sports havnt started yet. just keep a rig rocket in your plain of sight and the RC's will likely get them and you can breeze on by!! thats what i do!!, we all work too hard not to burn up some cash form time to time |
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| EK9Hatch |
I've been known to be of the Casanova nature....and here's a simple, yet great thing that women LOVE.
As gay as it sounds...
Leave her little notes.
When you leave the house, her place, etc. If you don't live with her, try slipping a note in her purse when shes not looking. The key is to do it so she finds it when you are not around. Just say little things like how much you like being around her, how beautiful she is and how much you think about her.
She will go crazy and you will soon to known as "Tha Man" to all her friends. lol
For real though...it works ;)
Jamie |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by EK9Hatch
For real though...it works ;)
Jamie
Jamie's right, it does work and it works well.
Flowers are nice, chocolates are cliche.
So is Valentine's.
It's all about the "out of the blue" surprises.
Because it's "out of the blue" they don't have to be big surprises:
-Pick her up from work
-Surprise her for a lunch
-Sing her a song (something semi-romantic at least)
-Slow dance her in the middle of the room w/ music in the background, just to two of you
All fairly small and inconsequential but the very fact that it's impromptu....makes it all the more special |
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| RacerGirl |
you can always bring her something she loves when she's having a bad day. Doesn't have to be big, Starbucks can even do.
Play with her hair when you're relaxing together.
give her a text or something to let her know you're thinking of her.
don't forget the little things. Most people try to do big things, and sure, it works; but girls always remember the little things best. |
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| beeb |
| Go to the Legeslature grounds at night, for a nice walk |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by RacerGirl
Play with her hair when you're relaxing together.
This must vary from woman to woman cuz I know of two who hate it when their hair is played with.
Well maybe not hate but don't like it.
Maybe it's just the way it's played with??? |
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| EK9Hatch |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
This must vary from woman to woman cuz I know of two who hate it when their hair is played with.
Well maybe not hate but don't like it.
Maybe it's just the way it's played with???
From past experiences I've found that women love it when you run your fingers through their hand when just laying in bed or relaxing watching tv.
I guess it does depend on the individual though.
Jamie |
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| tho_chi |
| I've found that a lot of girls like hand written notes or letters. Something that shows them you took that extra effort to show them you care |
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| GOT BOOST |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
This must vary from woman to woman cuz I know of two who hate it when their hair is played with.
Well maybe not hate but don't like it.
Maybe it's just the way it's played with???
Terry,
You need to go for the top hair...not the bottom! :lol:
The small stuff out of the blue works well. Be careful, you do not want to do it too much as you will then set a precedent for your self and the out of the blue actions will be more of an expectation rather than a "ohh... you're so sweet" ;)
Mike |
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| POX |
Damned if i know any of this romantic shit...
i got no clue why my gf is still with me :dunno: |
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| RideDomestic |
| I think the hand written notes are a great idea. I hope my gf will like it. |
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| Blackout-spec |
leaving flowers and a card on the table for when she gets home from work/classes worked for me many times.
im going to try the notes too, good idea. |
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| tho_chi |
| it works but as Mike said do not continue to always do it or the idea wears down quite quickly |
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| ReasonOne |
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you can always bring her something she loves when she's having a bad day. Doesn't have to be big, Starbucks can even do
RacerGirl
Bang on.
Perfect example. Not long ago my gf was having one hell of a shitty week at work. I play it cool through out the week... I react to her emotions in a non-chalant manner throughout that week just to throw her off. Then on Friday, I surprise her. In the morning when I drop her off for work, I order and send up a box of Timbits for her and her co-workers as well as a carafe of Starbucks Coffee. I get them all dropped off at the front reception with a small package and a note addressed for her eyes only basically saying that I do care about how rough work has been for her and I hope this makes the work environment a little more tolerable. I also wrote that I love her no matter what difficulty enters her life. In the small package I sent her a pink girly Starbucks mug.
She called me back in tears thanking me for my consideration.
When I picked her up from work I brought her a small bouquet of her favorite flower (one for every year we've been together). I slid a note on top that said "....Just because I love you". On the drive home we both talked about how our workdays went and how much we care for each other.
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I bang her
diesekiel
THEN.... I bang her. lol
;)
Her co-workers were quizzing her about me for weeks afterward.
Seriously, you don't have to shell out lots of bucks either. You just need to show her that you care. She does the same to me too.
I remember one time I was really bummed out. This was after I got my ticket for not possessing valid insurance when I was test driving someone else's car (who neglected to tell me his car's insurance and registration had expired). The next couple of days I was in a pretty sour mood. On the third day, she asks me if I want to go for a drive and I reluctantly agree. After cruising around for an hour or so (she KNOWS this makes me feel better)she asks if she can take the wheel, so I say sure. She drives for about 20 minutes and winds up parking in front of a friend's house I haven't seen in a long time.
I tell her that we should probably call him and make sure it's okay to drop by. She just takes my hand and drags me around back. Sure enough, she's arranged for 2 of my friends and their gf's to be there (I haven't seen them in a long time). They've got a BBQ going in the back yard and one of them tosses each of us a drink. She goes over and talks it up with the other ladies and leaves me to chat with my buddies.
I'm stunned. My friends tell me my gf gave them a ring and wondered if we could hang out for a few hours. We had a great time, and by the end of the day my bad mood was long gone. The ladies disappear at one point for about an hour. When they return, they bring back a small chocolate cake with 3 toy cars on it. What did it say? "Just Because..." Each of us kept a toy car.
Damn I love that woman.... :wub: |
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| ReasonOne |
I wholeheartedly agree with tho_chi,
Don't do this all the time or your setting yourself up for a whole load of trouble.
Your goal here is spontaneity, not bankruptcy or building up an expectancy for such treatment. |
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| diesekiel |
| Woohooooo yeah bangin' ftw! |
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