| Is this girl just fucked? - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| Turb0.ed.v6 |
| Over and done with |
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| diesekiel |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
I mean does the guy have to rape her mother and point a gun to her head forcing her to watch? :dunno:
Yes. :lol:
But honestly... after all that has happened already, I would leave her to deal with her own problems. She's obviously too far gone to listen to anything that you may have to say. So if you say or do anything, you could risk even maintaining her friendship by intervening.
Just my $0.02 :thumbup: |
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| ReasonOne |
Walk away from this one.
She'll run to you to bend your ear about her stupidity for the rest of your days unless you do.
And you're not even getting laid for it. Let's face it. Would you really want a woman that "is pathetic" to use your words?
You could man up and level with her. Tell her how you feel and tell her she's just leading herself down a sad and treacherous road to nowhere.
And that you're tired of seeing her purposely shoot herself in the foot. It gets tiring to watch someone hurt themselves over and over again. Distance yourself from it.
You're wasting too much of your own time over this. There are other hotties to play with out there, dammit! |
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| Cyanide Ride |
I'll assume the reason why you haven't walked away is that you have either some feelings for her or you're a good friend.
Either way, you've got to realize that some girls like the bad guys, never the good ones. You'll never be able to make someone like this understand what they are doing wrong, it's something they must figure out of their own, however frustrating it may be.
You have two options, one has been mentioned a few times already, walk away from this stress blanket.
This is the harder option that could take a long time or not, you can tough it out and be supportive but not pushy. She has to come to a realization on her own. |
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| Turb0.ed.v6 |
Thanks for the sound advice guys.
Cyanide Ride: You are right, at first the reason why I didnt walk away from it is because I did have feelings for her, but as time progressed I realized I cant like a girl like this.. one that cant stand up for herself and allows a man to control her. well now it's just I still care for her and I guess it bugs me knowing she'll probly end up being hurt again and guess what? I bet it's gonna be the same fucking cycle again, she'll forgive him... ignore all the facts.. and get hurt again.
But either way I'll take all of you's advice and forget about it, there's nothing I can do to change her mind I'm just wasting my time.
And for the record ReasonOne, not every guy is out there just for putang :lol:
thanks guys! |
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| diesekiel |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
And for the record ReasonOne, not every guy is out there just for putang
:rolleyes: :lol: |
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| tho_chi |
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And for the record ReasonOne, not every guy is out there just for putang
Its a large perk atleast?:dunno: |
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| Answermid |
Like you said, you informed her about everything that guy has done to hurt her, but she doesn't want to leave. Maybe he is bribing her in some way or she is a robot? I'd tell her one last time all in all how she is getting her life ruined by some "pimp" if you will and all she takes from your advice and helpfulness is dump him then get back with him? I say tell her you tried and walk away man. You obviously are a great friend and any person could see your trying to her, but I'm sorry it's hard for me to think she won't leave him and that gets me thinking if she is sane.
You're a good guy man :thumbup: . |
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| diesekiel |
| Yeah you are a good guy. So take her friend (the one that previously asked you out) on a date and feel free to boink her intensely now. :thumbup: |
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| EDISKRAD EHT |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
And for the record ReasonOne, not every guy is out there just for putang :lol:
Sorry dude I had to.
Stay away from this girl. All it'll do is stress you out and give you headaches. Even if you do get her (which we all know is what you want) you'll be "Too Nice" and she'll just leave you anyway. Some girls are just a sucker for punishment.:drama: |
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| Turb0.ed.v6 |
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Originally posted by Answermid
Like you said, you informed her about everything that guy has done to hurt her, but she doesn't want to leave. Maybe he is bribing her in some way or she is a robot? I'd tell her one last time all in all how she is getting her life ruined by some "pimp" if you will and all she takes from your advice and helpfulness is dump him then get back with him? I say tell her you tried and walk away man. You obviously are a great friend and any person could see your trying to her, but I'm sorry it's hard for me to think she won't leave him and that gets me thinking if she is sane.
You're a good guy man :thumbup: .
Thanks man, well I have been thinking about talking to her one last time but in a way I'm just too exhausted in this situation to give a fuck anymore. I mean COUNTLESS times I've told her she deserves so much better than that scumbag, she would agree but it always ends up the same. The sack of shit probly feeds her the same bullshit everytime "Oh you're special to me I dont want to loose you blah blah blah" and everytime she just takes it. What more can I do? I did everything to get the point across that she's an amazing girl and doesnt deserve this bullshit but heck it does nothing at the end.
w/e I'm done with this in a way it's stupid for me to keep caring for her right? How can I care for someone who doesnt even care about herself? And i'm just being as pathetic as her for keep going back to something that will never change :drama:
tho_chi and EDISKRAD EHT: There are 2 kind of girls in this world, ones that are only worthy of a "pussy and run" and others that are much more than that... this girl is the latter. :lol: |
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| EDISKRAD EHT |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
tho_chi and EDISKRAD EHT: There are 2 kind of girls in this world, ones that are only worthy of a "pussy and run" and others that are much more than that... this girl is the latter. :lol:
Yeah I guess this ones sounds more like "pussy and run" than will let you come back again, and again.:rolleyes: |
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| Turb0.ed.v6 |
| LOL oh no you did-int! |
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| EDISKRAD EHT |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
LOL oh no you did-int!
Just use your head with this one dude.
(And I mean the one ABOVE your shoulders) |
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| tho_chi |
haha i agree there are girls that are more the just pussy and run but you have to atleast get some consistantly from her or else its not worth it.. Im sure you have many friends..
Just use your head and don't get into deep to a point where you can't pull out. |
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| diesekiel |
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Originally posted by tho_chi
Just use your head and don't get into deep to a point where you can't pull out.
No pun intended... :rolleyes: |
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| Fazda |
| the girl is fucked i've delt with a girl like this before. |
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| MAPEX |
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Originally posted by Turb0.ed.v6
This is a long ass story and has bugged me for a while, but I wonder what do you guys think about this girl I know. I wont say much cuz I know her boyfriend does lurk these forums so I'll keep the details nice and short.
Basicly this girl has been going out with a certain guy for about 2 and a half years now. I havent gotten close to this girl until the begining of this year and i'd say we've gotten to know each other quiet well.. to the point that she tells me alot about her relationship.
So here it goes.. There have been countless times where she would tell me about how angry she is with this guy and how shitty he can treat her at times. She has told me that when they first dated this guy continued to see this other girl quiet often and although it bothered her she shruggs it off. I've seen this tool countless times before with other women, infact once I saw him holding shopping bags for 2 girls he was with.
Now what really confuses me is why is this girl still sticking with this guy? many times she considers calling it off but would always end up forgiving the fuckface.. :confused:
Now here's where it just gets pathetic.. about a month ago she gets in contact with me and tells me she's just recieved info that this guy previously went on a trip to calgary while they where dating and got into a hottub with a bunch of other girls and well hell who knows what that lead to. She also finds out directly from him that he lost his virginity before and it wasnt just 1 girl before her. Not a big deal you guys may say.. but this guy has told her when they first dated that he was a virgin and hell she was just crushed to learn this fuckbag has lied to her throughout their relationship.
The next day I talk to her again and she tells me she has called it off and that "there is nothing this guy can do to change things" I thought she has finnaly decided to move on with her life to bigger and better things.... or so I thought...
A week later I learn that she has gotten back with this guy.. and for fuck sakes it is just fustrating.. I mean I care about this girl she is amazing without doubt and I believe is a very pure and special girl, however I cant help but feel she is pathetic for keep going back to this fuckbag that takes advantage of this broad.
What do you guys think about this? Should I confront her about how pathetic and weak she is and that she has to dump this fool and move on? Or just forget it because she's too deep into the hole to save?
why is this girl still sticking with this guy? simple question , simple answer > the Size.. i guess |
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| STiPWR |
Girls like assholes.... untill you figure that out you'll be at home with your KY jelly and fleshlight.
Majority of women (especially hot girls) are insecure, you need to learn how to control that and you'll be the one in bed with them, instead of being the "nice guy" who she bitches and moans to on the phone.... thats what girlfriends are for.
Sorry to break it to you bluntly.. but its the truth. |
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| rythex |
Hello, you're an emotional tampon.
Ignore her hah. |
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| bboybean |
Bah forget about her.... my wifes best friend is like that.. boyfriend is a dick (and a crappy mechanic to boot) cheats on her , yels at her .. blah blah blah.
she's been with him the whole time but meanwhile decided to have 3 kids with him and move to canmore (away from all her friends and family).
She will probably do the same, get married/knocked up , say she still loves him but constantly bitch on how much of a loser he is.... I cant explain it but your probably already in the "freind zone" , find another chick and hump out your fustrations on her. |
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| arabian_ryda |
| get her drunk when she sad and then make your move. just whip it out and she will do the rest works everytime. they will act like they dont want it until u whip it out. try it belive me. |
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| bboybean |
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Originally posted by arabian_ryda
get her drunk when she sad and then make your move. just whip it out and she will do the rest works everytime. they will act like they dont want it until u whip it out. try it belive me.
FTW!!!!
Best advice ever
The best part is that it would probably work |
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