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| TRD |
| i broke up with my Ex like a month ago and its gonna be 2 soon and i still like her. i kno i should move on but then i cant i know we can do better than that. rite now were friends and everythign is cool. But one thing that bothers me a lot is one of my friend. like he doesnt realli know what hes doing sometimes and at time he can just do stuff that he thinks its rite but then pisses ppl off. and one time i was talking to him on the phone he said he was meeting with my ex and i said to him "look i dont care if u talk to her or w.e just as long as you dont touch her or mack on her". So then one day me and my buds went out with her and my "friend" while i was walking rite in front of me he puts his hands aroudn her for then she puts hers aroudn him a lil bit then drop, and sometimes he pretends to choke her and sometimes hold her hands a lil bit(that annoys me the most). And whenever i chill with them that always brings me down. and so far ive been thinking " i have no rights to be mad at him, shes not my gf no more so it shouldnt bother me except i can just say that he broke his words. so ya.. what would you guys do in my positioN?? |
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a REAL friend wouldn't try to pick up your ex in front of you
also, do not assume that your ex has gotten over you either. she can be just as confused & unsure as to whether she should "move on" or not
that's why she SEEMS to be letting him hit on her & etc
bottom line:
1) your "friend" is a dick, tell him to go f@ck himself. you specifically asked him to hold off and if he can't respect that request of yours...he is no friend. if he REALLY wanted to get together with your ex, he could at least talk to you about it and ask you what you think.
2) take things slow and see what happens with your ex, but if you feel the need to talk to her...then TALK TO HER. she's most likely just as unsure as you and if you don't call....what says she will call?
3) do not make your ex or your friends mad at you over this situation, you do not want to split your friends up over something like this
4) Grammar and paragraphs make things MUCH easier to read & comprehend. Please use them. :bigthumbup: |
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| TRD |
| ya sorry about the grammar and paragraph haha. ya my other friend told me that she is over me, but then i dont wanna belive it untill i hear it from her. i may sound stubborn but hey i rather hear it from her than to hear it from someone else, and right now im trying to get close to her like show her that she can talk to me, and that she can trust me, but i am kinda shy around her like its a lil bit hard for me to start a conversation with her unless i have a friend with me that knows her too. |
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| Pro Drag |
What, is she the crew bicycle, everybody gets a ride?
Never understood why a guy would actively want to be where one of his friends has been. One exception would be a "Menage". :bigthumbup: |
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| SplineZ |
Shy around an XGF? Why'd you 2 start going out in the first place if you werent comforatable with each other? *shrug* Did you guys have sex in the dark or something so you wouldnt see each other naked too? J/K! :)
Your friend should respect your wishes for him not to make passes at your X in front of you... If he doesnt he's either doing it JUST to piss you off, or he doesnt care about your wishes.. Etherway I would let him know that it upsets you.
Who did you hear from that said your XGF was over you? The friend thats hitting on her? Dont trust what he says about her :P If its one of her close gf's then, I'd take it with a grain of salt. Arrange to meet her ALONE some place public but quiet.. (second cup or something) and TRY and talk to her... Get over your uncomfortable feelings and just tell her that she's on your mind, if she doesnt reciprocate, atleast you've gotten it off your back and she knows how you feel... then you can tell her not to flirt with your buddy when your around because it makes you feel weird. She should have some respect for what your saying, and if she doesnt then.. Well.. Dont loose any sleep over it, obviously she doesnt care what you have to say.
It took me a while to get over my XGF too... I dunno how some guys can just shrug it off like it never happend.. must be nice :0
With enough prozac, You too will be normal again ;)
James Z |
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| SplineZ |
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Originally posted by Pro Drag@Jul 1 2003, 08:41 PM
What, is she the crew bicycle, everybody gets a ride?
Never understood why a guy would actively want to be where one of his friends has been. One exception would be a "Menage". :bigthumbup:
HEH a 4orgie! :boink: :boink: :boink: :boink: :boink:
James Z |
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