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| Cynix |
K ive been seein this girl for like almost a month now shes all the usuall shit smart funny i can actually talk to her for an extended length of time without shooting myself in the face. but today it was like a punch in the face or something but i felt myself not being attracted to her whatsoever like almost to the point of being repulsed. WTF is wrong with me ? she looked like she always does so and we didnt fight or anything today so . i kept asking myself wthell am i doing with this girl shes sick in my head but at the same time im like damn what a mistake that would be if i broke up with her .
the only logical explanation i can come up with is that she isnt the type of girl i usual date. most of my former gf's were like from lousy homes not to bright in the brains department and most of them i can honestly say were Smoking Hot sluts. shes an honor student comes from a Rich ass home can actually drive were the formers didnt even have there license yet . maybe i just like the hotties with no brains instead of the average girls . any Psychological insight would be appreciated |
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| colossus |
| Sigmund Freud said one is usually attracted to a girl similar to one's mother! LOL :owned: |
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| Magnum |
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Originally posted by colossus@Jul 3 2003, 04:19 AM
Sigmund Freud said one is usually attracted to a girl similar to one's mother! LOL :owned:
BWAHHAHAHAHAHA :bigthumbup: |
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| REFLUX |
What Sigmund Freud said has merit to it.
But how it applies to Cynix may not be so direct.
Cynix:
it may just be that you are intimidated by her. When I first started going out with my current gf, I had a slight tinge of jealousy cuz she is very smart at school & is very motivated.
Try to accept her for who she is and give it some time, jealousy is a very difficult thing to fight. |
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| colossus |
| We know who wears the pants there right?!! :lol: |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
| sounds like somebody needs a night out with the boys, maybe for beers maybe at the peelers who knows. Cynix every guy will reach that point in all relationships that they get in, it is just you questioning yourlself if she is the right one for you. Don't get to bent over it, from what you have said it sounds like you got a good girl there and I can almost guarantee that you will regret it if you let her go now. |
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| bono |
I agree with sean, your just not used to the fact you have someone who has intelligance and motivation. It seems like your past g/fs had neither so your probobly used to running the show. Look at how well she treats you in an overall view..does she remember your B-Day, your favorite music group..food...hobbies..and does she treat you with suprises every now and then...car mags...make you dinner..etc. If so then she's a keeper if not get my book on training a woman to be a good woman, ( kiddn )
Good luck |
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| over easy |
| your problem could mean that you are *Cough* Gay *Cough* and your past girlfriends were just people to show that you were walking a straight line. But know once you find a actual femal you close up because either A) this girl is a awesome catch that is turning you away only because the fact you never really had a "real" woman before or B) you a flat out a homersexual... no offence dude just my opinion |
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| v8slayer |
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Originally posted by over easy@Jul 5 2003, 07:02 AM
your problem could mean that you are *Cough* Gay *Cough* and your past girlfriends were just people to show that you were walking a straight line. But know once you find a actual femal you close up because either A) this girl is a awesome catch that is turning you away only because the fact you never really had a "real" woman before or B) you a flat out a homersexual... no offence dude just my opinion
OUCH!
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| ChromeDragon |
Sounds to me like you may be a little apprehensive about being with someone that you could realistically spend the rest of your life with. Most guys don't come to this realization until the night before their wedding, so it's probably a good thing that you're sorting it out now. I don't think you're repulsed by her, it's probably this thought of tying yourself down. Give that a thought and maybe give it another shot.
If not......well maybe it's time to look into chugging pole?
heh j/k
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| Mekanik22 |
| I didn't understand a word you said man, slow down when you type. Read over what you typed after your done and make corrections. I'm not trying to be mr. english teacher, just saying that so it's easier for people to help you. |
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| Cynix |
Ive realized what I want and its not a quality girl right now I need me a couple bitchy girls that liked to get bossed around; for now atleast besides im f@cking 20 who in the hell wants to be settling down alrdy certainly not me
anyway thanks for the advice and all sometimes you gotta figure shit out on your own |
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| colossus |
| Don't hold back. What do you really think? :gay: |
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| ChromeDragon |
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Originally posted by Mekanik22@Jul 6 2003, 07:19 PM
I didn't understand a word you said man, slow down when you type. Read over what you typed after your done and make corrections. I'm not trying to be mr. english teacher, just saying that so it's easier for people to help you.
Who are you talking to? There's a little "quote" button under each reply just for this purpose.....or typing the posters name.
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| bono |
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Originally posted by Mekanik22@Jul 6 2003, 07:19 PM
I didn't understand a word you said man, slow down when you type. Read over what you typed after your done and make corrections. I'm not trying to be mr. english teacher, just saying that so it's easier for people to help you.
Don't know what school you graduated from, but Chromey's phrases make sence to me. |
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