| i need some advice - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| so i met this girl that i had not seen for a little bit and we started kinda being friends with benifits. i just broke up with my girlfriend and both her and i agreed that we dont really want a serious relationship. the problem is that she seems to be doing more and more of the girlfriend like things. btu the thing that is confusing me is that we were fooling around and all of the sudden she says that she dosnt have feelings for me in that way, but we didnt stop doing anything. and she always tells me that she dosnt want a relationship, but when we are alone we hold hands and do all that outher junk and i am just really confussed, like :wtf: |
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| redbaron303 |
quite the predicament....
Maybe you ought to sit down and talk with her about what shes REALLY feeling about your situation... Maybe she's just agreeing w/ you about not wanting a relationship b/c she wants to be with you and fears you won't stick w/ her if she pipes up? It's plausible afterall...
Maybe slow down on the benefits part and just be friends for a little bit until you clear things up... I'm sure you don't want things to go south in the wrong way... :blink: |
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| s2oooR |
is she hot? B)
....i think that if she's hot....and we're all hoping she issss...lol that u dont have anythign to worry about......you both were upfront with each other from the beginning on how your relationship was gonna be....so if she is feeling anything for you, then she should speak up....its not your job to read her mind, right? ....its not your fault that she doesnt tell you.
mind you, i think u want somethign more with her cuz u wodlnt even have posted this thing up if u didnt like her in some way.....in fact, i think u HOPE she likes u in that way. :P
thats just my take though :D |
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| REFLUX |
GIRLS LIE.
It is VERY difficult to have sex without emotions. She is growing attached to you and if you really do not want a relationship with her, you had better talk to her about this soon.
The reason why she keeps on saying she does not have feelings for you & etc is because she wants YOU to make the move.
She holds your hand to comfort her own desires and MAYBE to hint at what she wants but she tells you she has no feelings because she knows/thinks that is what you want.
Actions speak louder than words. |
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| s2oooR |
u dont have to talk to her, man......u guys made it clear in the beginnning that this is all this was.... :bigthumbup: if she wants to confess that she has feelings, let her.... as far as u know, this is just friends with benefits :)
so is she hot? B) :lol: |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| i know thta we made it clear from the beginning but i would love to statr a relationship with her, the problem is that she friggen drives me crazy( not in the bad way) and iu justr got an email frome her today whaile i was @ work saying that she dosnt know what she wants anymore and that her friends dont want her to do anyhting with me while it is accually just one friend. damn she is givin me a headach, so in outher words i am :owned: |
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| s2oooR |
hahahaha....i KNEW ITTTT!!! Didnt i tell u, u liked her?! Oh well, I say u go for it......who cares what her friends say.....you'll always have it on your mind, "what could have been"
go for it :P :D B) |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| she is kinda the reason t5hat i broke up with my girlfriend in the first place, it was because i didnt want to have any regrets and i dont it is just that what this girl says and what she does just totaly contradicts themselves and i think i am bleeding from the ears thinking about it |
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| s2oooR |
| well, have fun doign her while it lasts :P ...lucky bastard! |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| ok here is the thing we really havent slept together yet like we have fooled around and made out but not had sex and that is what is connfusing me really, because i have some outer friends with benifits and i sleep with them every once and a wile, but she is different, ( i think she has a little more respect for her self then the rest of them), it is just the way that she touches me it isnt like a grope or any thing like that it is more of ( and it is going to sound a little girly) a caress then anything and why would you caress someone if you didnt like them and have feelings for them. like :wtf: |
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| s2oooR |
so u have more than one "friends with benefits?" share the wealth! lol :P
.....and not only that, they grope you? wth?! LOL and what do u mean they have less self respect for themselves?
would u keep those toher "friends" if u started goign out with this chick? |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| no i f i started to go out with this girl i wouldnt keep my outher friends but ya know i will give you there # if i stat dating this girl. |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by mazda929s_urbanImports@Jul 23 2003, 05:21 AM
no i f i started to go out with this girl i wouldnt keep my outher friends but ya know i will give you there # if i stat dating this girl.
:bigthumbup: :D
pics beforehand would be nice too :P |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| you know it |
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| colossus |
| That's called dick interference. Her friend is obviously running interference preventing you from getting a piece of da pie. You sound like you care about this girl... but you're going to get hurt nonetheless. :blink: |
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| Helios |
| damn c@ck blockers... :thumbsdown: |
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| s2oooR |
| thats some funny shit....."dick interference, cock blockers?" hahahaha :lol: |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
| maybe she was telling you that she didn't have feelings for you because she figured that is what you wanted to hear. If you and her enjoy each others company than keep enjoying each others company. Don't rush it, if you think that you might want to get serious with this one take your time you don't really want her to feel like a rebound as well if you take your time with her, her friends will more than likely come around. Hope this helps |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by Z3r03rr0r@Jul 23 2003, 05:50 PM
If you and her enjoy each others company than keep enjoying each others company. Don't rush it,
yeah, enjoy each others company :cuddle: :kiss: :moon: :boink:
...and dont rush it....enjoy the :boink: ^_^ |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| so ya i think i will just let whatever happen happen, so ya i am tired of all this shit. :angry: :angry: |
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