| hey guys, help me out here - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| Rich_A |
I have a blind date coming up so I thought I would bug for some advice on something. I seem to have a problem that shouldn't be a problem. I'm too - not shy. I am very forward, very open and pretty much completely uncensored. I don't mean I am rude or vulgar its just that I seem to intimidate/confuse the insecure part of girls or whatever.
I mean if someone walked up to me on the street and asked me how big my balls were I'd give them a straight answer and ask them how the weather should be on the weekend.
I think I have weirded out a couple girls with just how casual any sort of subject is to me.
I think people almost expect SOME initial shyness or some reservations but really I have none. Maybe I just need to meet the same sort of girl but.. who knows. Anyone have a similar problem? |
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| Nis13 |
| welcome to the club:beer: |
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| 30psi_on4banger |
| be yourself man you will be fine |
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| the_fornicator |
| bum = no babies |
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| Flex |
| If you act differently at the beginning the real you will have to come out some time. So may as well be yourself right form the start and if she cant handle it then shes not for you. |
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| AudiInProgress |
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Originally posted by Flex
If you act differently at the beginning the real you will have to come out some time. So may as well be yourself right form the start and if she cant handle it then shes not for you.
x2!
That's the best advice.
Just stop worrying about it. Some people have no brain/mouth filter and that's fine. Either she can put up with it, or she can't, and she can't - too bad for her.
Also, PIITB! |
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| Twigs_Dee |
PIITB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be yourself, don't hold back. And make sure you end the night, with PIITB! You'll be fine :thumbup:
Oh, dont forget to unload your gun before the date and have a rubber. :dunno: |
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| ZEguy |
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Originally posted by Nis13
welcome to the club:beer:
Amen.
And Rich, if its all comin out anyways bud, i say act confident about it.Chicks dig confidence because they can smell the stability and security off of ya, and thats what girls look for.It also helps if your a great looking italian guy,aswell :beer:
Ya gotta be like this guy ----> :cool: |
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| Rich_A |
| i thought girls could only catch the scent of leather and Robert Borden? |
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| CKXtreme |
If youre open and uncensored about shit, and she turns out not to be, how in the hell are you going to get along in the future?
If this is a blind date, theres absolutely no attachment yet. So try feeling it (cough...her...) out. Ask her what she thinks of things, etc, before laying on the "smack ma dick upside yo head bitch" talk. This is of course, she doesnt turn out to a hideous gorilla, because after all, this is a blind date. |
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| Talon_66 |
You're lucky!
I cant even get a date, blind or not haha
but I know where you're coming from about being uncensored. |
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| Realistic |
as long as you dont bring a horse on the date and expect her to fuck....... in my opinion... everything goes.
i'm the exact same...
then again, i wouldnt tell him how big, i'd show em! |
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| arabian_ryda |
here say this to her........
Some say the x, make the sex
Spec-tacular, make me lick you from yo neck
To yo back, then ya, shiverin, tongue deliverin
Chills up that spine, that ass is mine
Skip the wine and the candlelight, no Cristal tonight
If its alright with you, we fuckin (that's cool) |
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| GT45 |
Be yourself. Don't try to fake it. If she's not down for who you are in the beginning then fuck her and move on to the next.
It's not gonna matter anyways. She's just gonna fuck off to thailand in the end and leave you high and dry.
So get out now before you even fucking get in!!!!!
Just PIITB first |
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| jordanturbo |
Be whoever she wants you to be, relationship's ftl. I find it is easy to pretend being someone they like (especially through my superfacebook hacking skills finding their likes dislikes) and create a persona. Get her in the sack, then start to let the real you show slowly. she will just get more and more sick of you until she decideds to break up with you, then you get out of the relationship bs, and since she thinks she is the one that broke it off, and you didnt make her, there is little chance of reprocussions.
Thats the way I like to roll anyways, it works wonders on young girls 15-18 who think they are mature, grown up, and responsible (insert "you could have raped you in the bum" video). If you are into that whole clingy mushy relationship BS then I really dont have any advice. |
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| ZEguy |
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Originally posted by jordanturbo
Be whoever she wants you to be, relationship's ftl. I find it is easy to pretend being someone they like (especially through my superfacebook hacking skills finding their likes dislikes) and create a persona. Get her in the sack, then start to let the real you show slowly. she will just get more and more sick of you until she decideds to break up with you, then you get out of the relationship bs, and since she thinks she is the one that broke it off, and you didnt make her, there is little chance of reprocussions.
Thats the way I like to roll anyways, it works wonders on young girls 15-18 who think they are mature, grown up, and responsible (insert "you could have raped you in the bum" video). If you are into that whole clingy mushy relationship BS then I really dont have any advice.
Dude that is a solid post.Not like you invented it, but more like i commend you for realizing something VALUABLE that many do not or sadly, can not.
X2 :beer:
EDIT: but um i bumped the line up a wee bit there, im more like 17-20, using that tactic.If i wanted to get a 15 year old in the sack i would just take them to macs and buy them some candy and a slurpee or something. |
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| cupcake |
Most of my friends and I know guys fake their personas in the first month. It's when they stop trying to impress that makes or breaks the deal.
If you're candid, that's great. I think it's more fun when you don't have to be pretending anyways. Maybe tone it down for the first hour and then slowly let the smack come out. I usually scare guys that I just meet because right off the bat, I talk the way I would talk to my friends, and at times, it just isn't classy.
But then, what do I know? I'm apparently a guy in my friends' eyes. :dunno: |
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| jordanturbo |
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Originally posted by ZEguy
Dude that is a solid post.Not like you invented it, but more like i commend you for realizing something VALUABLE that many do not or sadly, can not.
X2 :beer:
EDIT: but um i bumped the line up a wee bit there, im more like 17-20, using that tactic.If i wanted to get a 15 year old in the sack i would just take them to macs and buy them some candy and a slurpee or something.
you're fucked, 20 is to old lol there is no way I will see someone that is the same age as me
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| Realistic |
^^^
lmfao
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| ZEguy |
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Originally posted by jordanturbo
you're fucked, 20 is to old lol there is no way I will see someone that is the same age as me
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Havin sex with 20 year olds is fun, you should try it sometime.:thumbup:
SEEING 20 year olds, yea, thats a problem. |
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| arabian_ryda |
| how did it turn out? did u wip it out?haha |
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| ZEguy |
Yea no kidding.Guy comes on here asking a a group of people for relationship advise, he gets some, then we get nothing back as far as resluts?
I feel used. |
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