| Guys dating your X ? - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| Cynix |
What do you do if you see your x gf at the bar with another guy ? just curious what other guys do in this kind of situation
1. Beet his ass up?
2. be all chummy and introduce yourself ?
3. dont talk to either of them and make zero i contact ?
4. be all chummy and introduce yourself then by him a drink throw it in his face "say oh im sorry i didnt know you wanted to drink it" and kick his face in?
me im liking #4 cause ive done it but what about the rest of you guys ? remeber now Im an evil uncaring bastard. so #4 is a walk in the park for me any more cruler idease are greatly appreciate as well kinda gentler ones will be added to my list of options but most likely wont make my cut. thanks |
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| REDX2NV |
| man you gottta think that you are not going to be with your ex anymore and that they are going to fuk other guys. You just gotta suck it up and do the same(but with girls heh) :P |
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| lovemytrx |
| So who dumped who, obviously you still have feelings for the girl or you still feel like she is your property. I'm guessing you have pent up anger or anger management problems and need to see a shrink before you hurt more people or meet your ex gf with somebody you try to beat em up and end up in the hospital. So why would you want to beat them up anyway. If you could be mature about it, introduce yourself, sorry, obviously you can't. Some of this is tongue in cheek, other stuff is serious. I'm just having fun with ya. |
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| s2oooR |
u gotta get back with your ex so no one else can be with her.... honestly man, thats the way to go :bigthumbup:
maybe u could give us her name and what she looks like ( a pic maybe?) ...this way none of us will come near her (thats if u dont get back with her, of course) B) |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 20 2003, 09:20 AM
maybe u could give us her name and what she looks like ( a pic maybe?) ...this way none of us will come near her (thats if u dont get back with her, of course) B)
Don't mind S2000R, he's always "shopping"
*tsk tsk*
ahhahhaha
I say move on man, you two broke up & if she is with another guy...she is with another guy.
Jealous ex-bf's aren't something that society is proud of....and BEING one....I'd just be plain old ashamed |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by REFLUX@Aug 20 2003, 06:52 PM
Don't mind S2000R, he's always "shopping"
*tsk tsk*
Me? Shopping? Come on now!.....Im just suggesting we all take a look at what she looks like so that he doesnt beat us up and stuff, u know? :unsure:
dont listen to Reflux, im proud of u man.......I think jealous bf's make themselves look more attractive to other girls because it shows they're willing to fight for them, u know? ..... :bigthumbup: Right girls? :bigthumbup:
....also u wanna make it impressive so u may wanna take soem tai bo or somethign like that, i dotn knw what u call it lol
j/j :P |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| my best friend started to date my x about 4 days after i broke up with her, not that i cared about that but it was the fact that he lied to me and talked shit about me behind my back that really pissed me off so here is to him :thefinger: |
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| POX |
| Cynix i dont think your quite grasping the whole concept of you being her EX |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
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Originally posted by s2oooR@Aug 20 2003, 12:25 PM
I think jealous bf's make themselves look more attractive to other girls because it shows they're willing to fight for them, u know? ..... :bigthumbup: Right girls? :bigthumbup:
Protective is good, jealous is bad. |
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| s2oooR |
| i was being sarcastic :P |
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| PraxRX7 |
I dont care where my ex is...that damn F-150 was nothing but trouble anyway!
=P |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I would have to admit, I would be bothered the first time I saw my ex with a new gf, but I also know I have no control over what someone else does. |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
I dont care where my ex is...that damn F-150 was nothing but trouble anyway!
=P
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| typesly |
quote:
Originally posted by Cynix
What do you do if you see your x gf at the bar with another guy ? just curious what other guys do in this kind of situation
1. Beet his ass up?
2. be all chummy and introduce yourself ?
3. dont talk to either of them and make zero i contact ?
4. be all chummy and introduce yourself then by him a drink throw it in his face "say oh im sorry i didnt know you wanted to drink it" and kick his face in?
me im liking #4 cause ive done it but what about the rest of you guys ? remeber now Im an evil uncaring bastard. so #4 is a walk in the park for me any more cruler idease are greatly appreciate as well kinda gentler ones will be added to my list of options but most likely wont make my cut. thanks
thats hurting dood |
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| -]TooL[- |
I think us guys can be the worst for that. The biggest thing is to remember why you broke up in the first place. You did break up for a reason whether it was your decision or not. If one of you isnt happy than of course you wont make it. I say suck it up. As for your friend, with my experience, let him have her. If he thinks she's worth the time after after seeing you try, let him waste his time. Move on! Much better girliez out there.
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by ]TooL[-@Aug 22 2003, 02:32 PM
Move on! Much better girliez out there.
Unless she was really hot :bigthumbup:
then...fight like lava's nipping at your toes and alligators nipping at your balls :lol: :lol: ^_^ :huh: |
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| PraxRX7 |
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Originally posted by REFLUX
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
I dont care where my ex is...that damn F-150 was nothing but trouble anyway!
=P
:blink:
Women dont go out with guys obsessed with cars... :tear: |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
Women dont go out with guys obsessed with cars... :tear:
Sure they do! :D |
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| Cynix |
| k the whole point of this topic was to find out wHAT OTHER PEOPLE would do none of you people even answered What you would do. you all think i got problems well i dont need a shrink if i like starting fights for no reason thats my business but you still didnt answer WHAT YOU WOULD DO. its says relationships and sex. Not Emotional Support group. |
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| REFLUX |
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Originally posted by Cynix
i like starting fights for no reason thats my business
you're going to be bankrupt very soon then.....
I would have left her alone and moved on. |
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| PraxRX7 |
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Originally posted by s2oooR
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
Women dont go out with guys obsessed with cars... :tear:
Sure they do! :D
WHere are they? I need to meet some! :fingersx: |
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| PraxRX7 |
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Originally posted by Cynix
k the whole point of this topic was to find out wHAT OTHER PEOPLE would do none of you people even answered What you would do. you all think i got problems well i dont need a shrink if i like starting fights for no reason thats my business but you still didnt answer WHAT YOU WOULD DO. its says relationships and sex. Not Emotional Support group.
What I would do? Simple!
I wouldn't even think twice about it, its like seeing the same fish in the lake after a catch and release. She isn't mine anymore so I wouldn't care. If I was put in a situation where I had to talk to them I would just joke around and say how lowsy in bed she was :D You know, ask her about that "strange growth" and the "rash" (it will be good for a few laughs if the guy hasn't slept with her yet). You know, like those stupid imodium commercials with "so hows that diarhea" just ask "so hows that gonorea" lol |
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| s2oooR |
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
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Originally posted by s2oooR
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
Women dont go out with guys obsessed with cars..._ :tear:
Sure they do! :D
WHere are they? I need to meet some! :fingersx:
I dont nkow they came to me :P |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| Only some girls like guys obsessed with cars, as long as they make time for the girlfriend as well. I'd prefer a guy that loves cars, but then I am not your average girl. |
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| SlowAzzPorsche911T |
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Originally posted by s2oooR
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Originally posted by PraxRX7
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Originally posted by s2oooR
[QUOTE]Originally posted by PraxRX7
[B] Women dont go out with guys obsessed with cars..._ :tear:
Sure they do! :D
WHere are they? I need to meet some! :fingersx:
I dont nkow they came to me :P [/b][/quote]
just cause of the car R.. and your blades, they're after your blades when they find out your broke they'll leave :P |
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| mazda929s_urbanImports |
| my x was pissed @ all the time and money that i spent on my car, oh wait that would be because i spent more time and money on my car then i did on her. well then at least my car wont bitch @ me all of the time and my car never needs to talk. so muh :bigthumbup: |
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| newtuner |
| Well I know everybody is like don't think twice about it and suck it up but, the truth is if you didn't think about it your not human. Granted not everybody throws a gin and tonic at a guys face and stuff, but everybody deals with thing differently. I think it is normal to think about it not everybody says anything but whatever. I know I wouldn't want to be friends with the guy, sure he hasn't done anything to me but it would just be wierd. :blink: |
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| driving a lemon |
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Originally posted by newtuner
Well I know everybody is like don't think twice about it and suck it up but, the truth is if you didn't think about it your not human. Granted not everybody throws a gin and tonic at a guys face and stuff, but everybody deals with thing differently. I think it is normal to think about it not everybody says anything but whatever. I know I wouldn't want to be friends with the guy, sure he hasn't done anything to me but it would just be wierd. :blink:
Agreed
Well you wouldnt be in the whole throwing drinks in the guys face if you didnt feel for da girl... obviously if you are feeling jelous enough to do something foolish like that then you would be foolishly in luv... :wub: So my advice would be.. if you like that girl that much then go for it.. Cuz you will regret it if yeah loose her... |
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| Spike7ss |
first of all.
SHOOT FIRST RUN LIKE HELL? :unsure: :rolleyes:
Whats done is done, you cant fix it all, better to lived and loved than never loved at all, speed kills drive a chev live forever, (oops nevermind that).
i say shat happens so deal with it :unsure: |
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| Z3r03rr0r |
| I say go up and introduce yourself. Be the bigger person, get to know the guy even be friends with him nothing worse then your ex and current being close friends maybe even help him find a hot chick in the club then she'll be single again. No need to get violent though. |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
quote:
Originally posted by Cynix
What do you do if you see your x gf at the bar with another guy ? just curious what other guys do in this kind of situation
1. Beet his ass up?
2. be all chummy and introduce yourself ?
3. dont talk to either of them and make zero i contact ?
4. be all chummy and introduce yourself then by him a drink throw it in his face "say oh im sorry i didnt know you wanted to drink it" and kick his face in?
me im liking #4 cause ive done it but what about the rest of you guys ? remeber now Im an evil uncaring bastard. so #4 is a walk in the park for me any more cruler idease are greatly appreciate as well kinda gentler ones will be added to my list of options but most likely wont make my cut. thanks
okay, since you wanted my answer, I would go with none of the above. if I ended well with my ex, I would go and say hello to him, and that is all. if I do not get along well with my ex, I would acknowladge their existance with a nod, or smile, and then ignore them the rest of the night.
Who really cares anyways? it is your ex for a reason, be happy they moved on, and so have you. If you have not moved on, you got some issues to deal with. |
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| bigboom |
| id have to go with a completely different approach, if it did not end well i would basically ignore them, they arent a part of your life anymore so move on, especially if they screwed up why should you bring trouble into your life by worrying about it? if you are still friends and seeing her with another guy annoys you just suck it up and be nice, you never know what the future will bring. |
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| HKSpowers |
Well lets see here.
I've gone out with a few girls in my past, ones that dint last longer than a few months. Those ones i'm pretty much down with being a friend even good friend, and i dont have a problem with them seeing other people.
I mean we broke up time to move on.
But what I will say is for your first love, like mine who i was with for 6 years. The girl i gave my heart and soul to, the one i would do anything for including kill, you all know what i mean the other half of you, the better half of you.
Well if i were to see her in the bar with her bf, nothing would hold me back, NOTHING. All the anger and rage i have built up i'd imagine i would come close to killing him if not acctully killing him.
Infact i tried to kill him last klondike days if my friends dint pull me away cause cops were all around.
But this is the only circumstance. The rest come and go and i dont hold anything against them. They are allowed to have other bf's just as long as its not while i'm with them. |
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| curtis_rak |
It sucks when it happens but, I would most likely stay away. If I happen to make eye contact with the Ex.....just nod wave. No matter how much you liked the Ex, or how long you dated, it is inevitable.
What else can you really do? :dunno: |
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| driving a lemon |
| Actually i think i would have a heart attack if a guy was dating my ex... Man that would be soo funny... In my case seing your ex has gone gay.. That would really make my day.. In fact i think it wouldnt be so bad if they were with another guy then if they were actually with the opposite sex... |
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| bigboom |
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Originally posted by driving a lemon
Actually i think i would have a heart attack if a guy was dating my ex... Man that would be soo funny... In my case seing your ex has gone gay.. That would really make my day.. In fact i think it wouldnt be so bad if they were with another guy then if they were actually with the opposite sex...
would you really want to be the one that caused a guy to go gay? hahaha |
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