| Girls and Guys that are dirty - Click HERE for Original Thread |
| Scintillater |
| I've heard this is very subjective: how many different people you've slept with to be considered....dirty. I've talked to people who've lost count of the partners they've had, while others, are either virgins at the age of 28 or have had one partner and can practically tell you every detail of their sexual history. I've heard that "dirty" is when you just sleep with a lot of people and don't care about them, when I've also heard that "dirty" is not if you sleep with many people, because you enjoy having sex, but only if you "brag" and tell other people when really, its a private thing. Once girl told me as long as the body count (hahah) is under 100, it's okay, when another guy said anything over 5 is gross. Plus, IS there a difference for real between guys and girls? Or is it all subjective depending on how your partner feels about it all? |
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| REFLUX |
over 100?!
that's gross
if i were considering girlfriend material i wouldn't want someone who has slept with over 5 guys
5 is really pushing it too |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
| So I guess you all think looking for a virgin is nuts then huh?. |
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| REFLUX |
in today's world, finding a virgin is hard
even religious types step into the realm of "pre-marital sex"
but i think one being able to keep their virginity is a real sign of willpower |
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| DrunkenGoddess |
wait.. i'm not getting this right
guys should be able to sleep around with whatever amount with whomever YET their gf must either be a virgin or someone who hasn't slept with more than 5 guys?
wow.. SEX EQUALITY!
and scint.. when someone uses dirty.. i think dirty as in kinky.. like.. if you watched scary movie 2.. that black girl.. she got "dirty" .. piss in your mouth.. hahahah.. ew.. that's just dirty.
and the whole sex business.. once you lose it.. i'm not sure the count's that important.. <!--emo&???--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/confused.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt='???'><!--endemo--> |
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| Scintillater |
| for some people, they enjoy sex, and if they're responsible, then what's wrong with it? I'm not saying go sleep with a million people, but who are we to judge people in that sense? If you're totally responsible, isn't that better than someone who's just a shady person in general? We place so much emphasis on chastity, that it often gets in the way of looking at more important attributes of a person. I know some people who are still virgins, but they are horrible and deceiving, but funny enough, a person who's slept with 20 different people yet is an amazing character and trustworthy friend is going to get the evil eye compared to the virgin. WHy is that? When I FIRST started meeting people who were "sexually liberated" my eyebrow was kind of raised too...but...then I got to know them as friends, and realized that it's just a perogative of theirs, and if they don't try got push their beliefs on anyone, why would i have the right to do that to them? |
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| DrunkenGoddess |
exactly. since when did sex affect one's personality/character anyways? sex isn't emotional unless it's "making love" which is totally different. and to be honest.. ppl who are open about sex and aren't all conservative and narrowminded are much funner to be around! not to say if you're a virgin you're not fun.. it's when you're a virgin and are critical of those who aren't that makes you an ass.
be openminded ppl.. sex doesn't affect someone's character
when you find a gf.. i think it would be pretty lousy to judge them based on their count. furthermore.. i don't think you could even tell how many ppl they've slept with if they never told you.. therefore.. the number truly has minimal effect on them |
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| Scintillater |
| There's another thing...I don't even WANT to know how many ppl my bf's been with b4 me...as it's NONE OF MY BUSINESS. THe only thing that concerns me is what he's done the day we started going out. Just like we all have our owh dirty little secrets...things we're not too proud of....so we don't want to be judged on it..so how can we judge others? |
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| REFLUX |
that's why it's good to lead a life where you dont have anything to hide
nothing you're ashamed of.......well nothing that will "kill you" if other people found out
tho that's hard to do |
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| Talented |
I guess the only time you can tell if a girl had sex yet is after the first time. After that you really have no idea how much they've been sleeping around.
Like reflux said, it's almost impossible to find a virgin now, but I also admire the girls that can resist until marriage. Although if a girl has slept with a few guys it dosen't make her a slut.
Dirty? hmm I guess you can say someone that sleeps around a lot is considered dirty to me, but when you mention the word dirty I tend to think like Drunk. That it means kinky sex etc <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| DrunkenGoddess |
actually.. you can't always tell if a girl is a virgin or not because many girls bleed more than once.. actually, i have so i mean.. there's really no way to tell!
scint, you're so right.. we really have no business prying into their past!!
and reflux.. you mentioned "nothing to hide".. well, if society wasn't so narrow-minded in the first place, everyone COULD openly discuss their inner skeletons.. but since almost everything has been branded a "sin" or.. "bad".. everything has to be suppressed. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Wow, I didn:t expect to see that many strong feelings about this topic...
Well, don`t forget, being intimate with someone isn`t the same as sleeping with someone. I still don`t believe in pre-marital sex, but anything else goes. |
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| REFLUX |
DG: yeah society thinks everything's a sin/something bad, trick is to not care
and as difficult as it is to find a female virgin, im sure that a male virgin is even harder to find
Andy: pre-marital sex=intercourse? or is oral sex/fore play included? |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
If you put your package in her pocket, then it's pre-marital sex, any other types of stimulation is just bending your virtues abit <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo-->
It hink I'd have to say that heavy petting is a small part of foreplay, so I guess foreplay is okay.
Oral Sex?, I sure. |
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| Scintillater |
| your values are your own, and you should stick by them. But be careful not to push your ideals on someone else; they'd probably like it about as much as you'd like their ideals pushed upon you. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Oh of course, yes. I'd hate to be labelled as "pushy"
I just thought that goes without saying. I just happen to be an extremly open minded guy <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| Scintillater |
| being open minded is good. <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| My gf is a virgin and I know another girl that "kinda" likes me...and she's a virgin too! Maybe I just attract virgins....I dont think they're too hard to find, actually. They just seem to find me!...... <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo--> |
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| prophet_ca |
| Dirty is when a girl has sex with you, your brother, and friend.. one after another... In Rundle park... in a car... after a drinking binge |
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| s2oooR |
| Douche, anyone? <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo--> |
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| masterv |
prophet_ca>>busy gal ain't she?
s200r>>bring them to v8less.. |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
quote:
Originally posted by -s2oooR
Douche, anyone? _<!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo-->
Dude, I don't think any amount of "douching" would clean that trash up... |
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| s2oooR |
Well thats not niceeeeeee.....lol
These "dirty girls" used to be nice innocent girls before, u know? ...Before some trashy guy dirtied them all up! <!--emo&:angry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':angry:'><!--endemo--> |
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| masterv |
| used goods really do suck... |
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| BlueTurboEGG |
Well, it's not always like that Rommel, *some* girls are just born dirty...
Like Vince says... <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
There must be a way to get a dirty girl to turn good, no? Like I mean, look at the movie, "Pretty Woman?" <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo-->
The girl just has to meet the right guy, I think <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| SilverAP1 |
| it is a vicious circle dirty girls will just get dirtier. Used and abused girls = nono.... if you have a conscience |
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| s2oooR |
dirty is such a STRONG wordddd.....lets use the word, "experienced?".....thus, experienced girls get more experienced....and unexperienced girls just dont get educated! <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo-->
Personally, I want a girl thats got a masters degree *wink wink* lolololol.....jk! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| <!--emo&:0--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:rolleyes:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/rolleyes.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':rolleyes:'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| GR, dont YOU have a masters degree?.... <!--emo&;)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wink.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=';)'><!--endemo--> ...jkkkkk!!!!!!!!! |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| R: I'm shocked you'd say such a thing! <!--emo&:cry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| the heat, its getting to me <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:cry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'><!--endemo--> |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| That is no excuse!!!!! <!--emo&:cry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| <!--emo&:thumbs-up:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'><!--endemo--> is there anything I can do to make it up to you? <!--emo&:thumbs-up:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'><!--endemo--> |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
| I'll let you know on MSN..... |
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| s2oooR |
| ....I would, but im waiting for my gf <!--emo&:(--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':('><!--endemo--> |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
I know..... it is always about your needs!! <!--emo&:cry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'><!--endemo--> j/k
you and Maria better work things out! |
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| s2oooR |
| We got into an even bigger fight tonight! I'll copy the conversation if anyone wants to read it....this one is even worse than the one u guys read before!....:( |
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| ManHunter |
What, do you tape your conversations? You have transcripts? <!--emo&:0--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'><!--endemo-->
MH |
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| Genki |
quote:
Originally posted by -ManHunter
What, do you tape your conversations? You have transcripts? _<!--emo&:0--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'><!--endemo-->
MH
their conversations are on msn. |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
R: you know the drill.... e-mail me....
I need something to do till 6:30 today.... |
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| s2oooR |
| I just did <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> .....its kinda long though....hope u have time <!--emo&:)--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':)'><!--endemo--> |
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| masterv |
| Crys>>if i were boss i'd fire u and sweep u out the door already hahaha get to work!!! <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:p--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':p'><!--endemo--> |
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| s2oooR |
| Vince, shut up....she's reading! <!--emo&:angry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':angry:'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:thumbs-up:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/thumbs-up.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':thumbs-up:'><!--endemo--> |
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| masterv |
| time to play key scratching s2k's.....it's a fun game =) |
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| Genki |
quote:
Originally posted by -masterv
time to play key scratching s2k's.....it's a fun game =)
COOOLLL!!! can i play too?? <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo--> |
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| masterv |
| i also know a game called smashy smashy <!--emo&:D--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/biggrin.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':D'><!--endemo--> |
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| GirlRacer P1 |
R: Sorry, I do not have time today...... <!--emo&:cry:--><img src="http://asianet.ca/images/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/cry.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':cry:'><!--endemo-->
As for you two: Hmmmm... I am sure I can find a better car for smashy smashy. |
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